Why They Did It The lingering question that haunts almost everyone recovering from infidelity: Why? The unfaithful spouse may not know why just yet, but use these articles to gain insight and, eventually, freedom from the uncertainty. Must Reads more less Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Rebuilding Trust After An Affair How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair The Problem with Forgiveness Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse The Power of Small Groups The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity How to Survive Infidelity Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? 378 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A They had to Know the Affair Would Devastate me, Right? 7/28/2015 Q&A What Effects do Antidepressants Have on Infidelity? 7/07/2015 Q&A Is it Possible to be Mean to Someone you Love? 7/07/2015 Q&A How can I Regain Self-Esteem? 6/23/2015 Q&A What are the Issues Related to Being a F.O.B.A.D.? 6/23/2015 Q&A What Boundaries are Needed to Keep my Family Safe? 6/09/2015 Q&A How can I Manage my Anger in a Healthy Way? 6/09/2015 Q&A (HFH) Rick, What was Your Personal Experience With Relapse? 4/15/2015 Q&A What is Going Through His Mind? 3/31/2015 Q&A How do I Know my Husband's True Feelings? 3/20/2015 Q&A How Can I Come to Grips that my Husband Thought he was In Love With Someone Else? 3/20/2015 Q&A Is my Spouse a Sex Addict? 2/20/2015 Q&A Can Women Compartmentalize as Men do? 2/20/2015 Q&A How do I Get to the Truth? 2/20/2015 Q&A How Do I Get Past the AP Being in my House?! 1/23/2015 Q&A Can a Man Be in Love With Two Women at the Same Time? 1/12/2015 Q&A Why Doesn't my Husband Understand the Damage he is Causing? 1/06/2015 Q&A My Husband was Unfaithful for 10 Years. How can he Love me? 12/19/2014 Q&A How do I Deal With my Anger and Emotions? 12/16/2014 Q&A When will my Husband Understand his Feelings so that I can Feel Safe? 12/15/2014 Q&A Am I Over the Top for Feeling this Way? 12/11/2014 Q&A If my Husband Affaired down, did his Affair Partner? 12/11/2014 Q&A Limerance and Male Compartmentalization 12/11/2014 Q&A Why is the Unfaithful Blessed While the Betrayed Loses it All? 12/11/2014 Q&A How do I Accept This as my Life? 12/10/2014 Q&A How can a Betrayed Spouse Become Unfaithful? 12/10/2014 Why Did My Spouse Cheat? 4/17/2013 Achieving Real Change, part 4 1/01/2013 Pages« first‹ previous12345678