All Categories After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need. Must Reads more less Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair The Power of Small Groups Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 The Problem with Forgiveness Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) How to Survive Infidelity 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse 4838 Resources Type Title Posted Forgiveness: How Does 70 Times 7 Work? 3/09/2022 Is There Hope After Infidelity? 3/02/2022 Affair Partners: Eight Reasons Not to Confront Them 2/23/2022 Q&A How Long Should I Accept and Validate His Exaggerated Reactions as a Result of My Previously Reckless Behaviors? 2/17/2022 Q&A Do You Agree It’s Necessary to Re-Establish No Contact? 2/17/2022 Q&A Why Don’t I Respect My Husband? 2/17/2022 Q&A How Should I Go About Trying to Get to Ground Zero? 2/17/2022 Q&A How Do I Get past the Affair Partner Continually Sending Me Photos and Descriptive Dialog? 2/17/2022 Q&A What Do I Do When My Partner Is in Denial about His Infidelity? 2/17/2022 Q&A Should a Wayward Spouse Be Allowed to Have Friends of the Opposite Gender? 2/17/2022 Q&A How do I Heal? 2/17/2022 Q&A Is He Just Not Interested in Me or Did He Magically Figure Out How to Treat a Woman? 2/17/2022 Q&A When an Intrusive Thought Occurs, How Do I Know the Difference between Suppressing and Ignoring That Thought versus Not Giving It Any Airtime, Capturing It, and Redirecting My Thinking to Something Else? 2/02/2022 Q&A Am I Being Closed Minded? 2/02/2022 Q&A How Should I Deal With Characteristics That I Do Not Possess, Yet Seem to Have Been Sought after by My Spouse in the Affair Partners? 2/02/2022 Q&A What Do I Do to Protect My, and My Children’s, Heart? 2/02/2022 Q&A How Can I Get To a More Balanced Psyche? 2/02/2022 Q&A Is It Wrong to Feel a Sense of a Sexual Revolution, after His Affair? 2/02/2022 Announcing NEW Infidelity Video Blog: Songs for the Soul 1/26/2022 Q&A What Do We Do When We Both Cheated, If My Betrayal Was ‘Worse’ than His? 1/18/2022 Q&A Am I Choosing Closeness over Intimacy When I Don’t Let My Mate Know About Intrusive Thoughts When We Are Lovemaking? 1/18/2022 Q&A Will the Betrayed’s Irritability Ever Go Away? 1/18/2022 Q&A What Should We Tell the Kids If They Ask Why Dad Is Living in the Basement? 1/18/2022 Q&A How Can My Wife Believe That She Fulfilled Her Fantasy If She Also Says That’s Not Who She Truly Is? 1/18/2022 Q&A Is This Finally Enough to Divorce and End Recovery Work? 1/18/2022 Q&A What Type of Recovery Program Does My Husband Need? 1/18/2022 Q&A How Can I Get My Emotionally Unavailable Husband to Walk toward the Storm Instead of Away? 1/18/2022 Q&A What Do I Do When the Betrayed Spouse Shuts Me Out and Doesn’t Want to Talk about His Pain, Unless Forced? 1/18/2022 Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors 1/12/2022 Q&A Are My Expectations Too High? 12/17/2021 Q&A What Do We Do When the Affair Partner Refuses to Cooperate about the Child? 12/17/2021 Q&A How Can We Set Boundaries If They Keep Being Disregarded and Violated? 12/17/2021 Q&A Should I Change Churches or Should I Just Get Over It since It Was All in His Fantasies? 12/17/2021 Q&A What Should I Do With the Saved Messages between My Husband and His Affair Partners? 12/17/2021 Q&A Why Is He Okay as Long as I Don’t Talk about It? How Can We Get past This If He’s Unwilling to Answer Questions? 12/17/2021 Q&A How Can I Help My Husband Understand the Importance of Knowing the ‘Why’ and Also How to Can I Help Him See That It’s Not an Excuse or Blaming Anything? 12/17/2021 Q&A Should We Abstain from Sex at This Point in Our Recovery? 12/17/2021 Q&A At What Point Is It Unhealthy to Be Avoiding Events Because the Affair Partner May Go or Avoiding Places Because They Once Went There Together? 12/17/2021 Social Shame: Four Ways to Stay In It 12/13/2021 Social Shame: Surviving Infidelity Isn’t Enough 12/08/2021 Social Shame: Have You Been Dishonored? 12/01/2021 Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it 11/24/2021 Q&A Why Is My Wayward Spouse Playing the Victim in Our Relationship? 11/19/2021 Q&A Can His Expressed Feelings of Love Be True When He Was Deceiving and Betraying Me? 11/19/2021 Q&A How Much Should I Allow My Hurt Spouse to Vent and Control Conversations? 11/19/2021 Q&A What Can I Ask My Spouse to Do That Also Requires the Same Amount of Effort in the Process of Recovery? 11/19/2021 The Use and Abuse of the Polygraph 11/10/2021 Q&A Should My Unfaithful Spouse Make a Symbolic Sacrifice to Help My Healing? 11/04/2021 Q&A What Type of Dilemma Am I In? 11/04/2021 Q&A How Do I Help My Betrayed Wife with Her Depression That Has Escalated Dramatically since Discovery? 11/04/2021 Pages« first‹ previous…456789101112…next ›last »