For The Hurt Spouse There are many aspects in the recovery of the betrayed spouse that will look very different from the unfaithful spouse. These articles are written specifically for healing and to provide hope and encouragement for the hurt spouse. Must Reads more less Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted The Problem with Forgiveness 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) How Could You? 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Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? 1209 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A How Does Telling a Few Trusted Friends about My Husband's Infidelity Help Me Heal? 10/25/2017 Q&A How Do I Handle the Behavior before D-Day? 10/25/2017 Q&A How Do I Process the Truth of What Has Happened? 10/25/2017 Q&A How Do I Forgive the AP Who Was Also a Close Friend? 10/25/2017 Q&A Where Do I Go from Here? 10/25/2017 Q&A How Can I Trust My Mate Again? 10/25/2017 Q&A How Do I Understand the Mind of the Unfaithful? 10/25/2017 Q&A Why Isn't My Mate Grateful I Haven't Left Yet? 10/25/2017 Q&A How Much Initiation Should the Unfaithful Spouse Be Responsible for in the Healing Process? 10/25/2017 Q&A What Do I Need to Know? 10/25/2017 Q&A Is There Hope for Our Marriage? 10/25/2017 Q&A How Do I Overcome the Fear I Have with His Sexual Performance? 10/25/2017 Q&A How Do We Heal from the Affair While Raising a Child Conceived with the Affair Partner? 10/25/2017 Q&A How Do We Set Reasonable Boundaries? 10/25/2017 Q&A How Can My Mate Get the AP to Stop Contact? 10/25/2017 Q&A Do I Need to Know? 10/25/2017 Q&A Am I in a Phase? 10/25/2017 Q&A How Can I Be Sure the Type of Sex He Had with His AP Is Not His New Preference? 10/25/2017 Q&A Was His Behavior Typical of Someone in an Affair? 10/25/2017 Q&A How Can I Be Sure That the Feelings Are Gone? 10/25/2017 Q&A What Might It Take for My Heart to Stop Aching and Me to Be Truly 'All In'? 10/25/2017 Q&A What Might It Take for My Heart to Stop Aching and Me to Be Truly 'All In'? 10/25/2017 Q&A Why Can't I Fully Commit to My Wife? 10/25/2017 Q&A What Causes Someone to Cheat? 10/25/2017 Q&A Should I Prepare to Leave or Take Control of Our Healing? 10/25/2017 Q&A How Can I Help My Mate Reflect on How He Got Here? 10/25/2017 Q&A How Can I Convey the Importance of Remorse and Grief from My Mate? 10/25/2017 Q&A How Can I Feel Not Just Safe, but Free Again? 10/25/2017 Q&A How Do I Handle Daily Triggers? 10/10/2017 Q&A Is It Normal to Feel Nothing for My Spouse? 10/10/2017 Q&A Why Won't My Mate Fully Commit to Me? 10/09/2017 Q&A Was the Affair a Result of Childhood Abuse? 10/09/2017 Q&A Why Is My Unfaithful Mate So Selfish? 10/09/2017 Q&A Should I Ask about the Physical Parts of the Affair? 10/09/2017 Q&A When Will My Mate Feel Safe Again? 10/09/2017 Q&A Does Childhood Abuse Predispose People to Infidelity? 10/09/2017 Q&A How Do We Handle Separation during EMS Online? 10/09/2017 Q&A Can Separation Increase the Time It Takes a Couple to Recover? 10/09/2017 Q&A How Do I Get My Mate to Begin Their Own Healing? 10/09/2017 Expert Q&A Preview: Will Mate Ever Understand What They Have Done? 10/05/2017 Q&A How Do I Discuss the Affair with My Mate? 10/05/2017 Q&A What Do I Do with My Husband's Lack of Remorse? 10/05/2017 Q&A How Do I Handle People Ignoring the Affair? 10/05/2017 Q&A How Do I Get over the Sexual Things My Husband Would Do with His AP, but Not with Me? 10/05/2017 Q&A How Do We Handle Transparency in Recovery? 10/05/2017 Q&A How Do I Get the Care I Need When He Doesn't Care about Himself? 10/05/2017 Q&A Is It Important That the Unfaithful Mourn the Loss of the Affair/Affair Partner? 10/05/2017 Q&A Is There Any Hope for Us? 10/05/2017 Q&A Can a Man Truly Love Two Women at the Same Time? 10/05/2017 Q&A How Do I Overcome Fear of Relapse? 10/05/2017 Pages« first‹ previous…161718192021222324next ›last »