Rebuilding Trust In the short run, transparency can take the place of trust until trust is reestablished. Learn the components of trust, how to function in its absence, and what it takes to reconnect. Must Reads more less Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity The Problem with Forgiveness Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery How to Survive Infidelity Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? The Power of Small Groups How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery 349 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A At what Point do I Move on? 8/11/2015 Q&A How do I Respond to Continual Lies? 8/11/2015 Q&A What Next? 7/31/2015 Q&A What Affects do Polygraphs have on Recovery? 7/31/2015 Q&A Should I Secretly Install Spyware on my Spouse's Phone? 7/31/2015 Q&A Will I Ever Believe an Agreement Again? 7/28/2015 Q&A Can Someone go from Years of Unfaithfulness to Faithful at the Flip of a Switch? 6/02/2015 Q&A How do we find the Truth between Two Different Perspectives of the Affair?” 5/29/2015 Q&A Should I Separate From my Unfaithful Spouse? 5/19/2015 Q&A Which Comes First, Forgiveness or Trust? 5/12/2015 Q&A Why do They Continue to Lie? 5/12/2015 Q&A Do you Think he Might be Lying Again? 4/24/2015 Q&A How Can we Shift Control of the Relationship? 4/24/2015 Q&A How Can I Trust Him if I Can't See Him? 4/24/2015 Q&A How do I Obtain Closure When the AP is his Ex-Wife? 4/21/2015 Q&A How Does a Betrayed Spouse Deal with Lying by Omission? 4/15/2015 Q&A Is it Normal for a Betrayed Spouse to have 180 Degree Turnaround? 4/15/2015 Q&A Should I Give up on my Dishonest Husband? 3/20/2015 Q&A How can I Get my Husband to Cut off Contact With His AP? 3/20/2015 Q&A Could my Spouse be Held Back Without Full Disclosure? 2/20/2015 Q&A Should my Spouse Take a Lie Detector? 2/20/2015 Q&A How can I Know if my Husband may be Having Another Affair? 2/20/2015 Q&A How can we Agree on Financial Safety? 2/10/2015 Q&A (HFH) Am I Subconsciously Sabotaging my Marriage? 2/10/2015 Q&A Is it Safe to Stay? 1/23/2015 Q&A How do we Get to Ground Zero and end this Cycle? 1/23/2015 Q&A How Can I Forgive a 7 Year Affair? 1/23/2015 Q&A How do I Start to Trust Again? 1/12/2015 Q&A Should I Be Healed by Now? 1/12/2015 Q&A Can We Recover From This? 1/06/2015 Q&A Do We Need Marriage as a Foundation? 1/06/2015 Q&A Should I Allow my Husband to Move Back in? 1/06/2015 Q&A How can I Stop the Images from Popping up in my Mind? 12/16/2014 Q&A How far do I Push for the Truth? 12/16/2014 Q&A Am I Crazy, or is my Husband Telling the Truth? 12/11/2014 Q&A Am I Over the Top for Feeling this Way? 12/11/2014 Q&A Limerance and Male Compartmentalization 12/11/2014 Q&A Do I Run or Reconcile? 12/10/2014 Q&A How do I Accept This as my Life? 12/10/2014 Q&A How can a Betrayed Spouse Become Unfaithful? 12/10/2014 Q&A My Husband Continuously "Forgets" 12/10/2014 Q&A How Do I Know if my Spouse is Really Changing or just Pretending? 12/10/2014 Q&A How Can I Get Past the Fear of the Future? 12/05/2014 Q&A Should I Share my Temptations and/or Failings with my Spouse? 12/01/2014 Q&A How do you Respond to Righteous Indignation? 11/20/2014 Q&A My Husband is Having Urges 11/05/2014 Q&A Intrusive Thoughts Preventing Rest 11/04/2014 Q&A Intrusive Thoughts and Triggers 11/04/2014 Creating Healing Spaces 5/01/2014 Pages« first‹ previous1234567