Recovering Alone Recovery can be won even if your spouse is not willing to participate just yet. What is most important is your own individual recovery so that you can thrive in a life of new hope and restoration. Must Reads more less Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) How to Survive Infidelity Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors The Power of Small Groups 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 The Problem with Forgiveness 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity 165 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A How do I Deal With an Extremely Obstinate Unfaithful Spouse? 11/23/2016 Q&A How Long Should I Try to Hold On? 10/24/2016 Q&A qWhat Are Appropriate Separation Protocols? 10/24/2016 Q&A Why Would He Do this After Already Inflicting so Much Pain? 10/24/2016 Q&A Should We Part Ways Now to Save Ourselves? 10/24/2016 Q&A Will My Spouse Come Around or is it Time to End it After the Affair? 9/28/2016 Q&A Should I Let Go or is This Normal Behavior? 9/07/2016 Q&A Why is My Mate Not Making Healing and Recovery a Priority? 9/07/2016 Q&A If the Infidelity Continues, is it Time for Divorce? 8/03/2016 Q&A Any Considerations for Me to Determine Safety in the Relationship? 8/03/2016 Q&A What Will Help My Unfaithful Spouse 'Get it'? 8/03/2016 Q&A How Long Should I Resist Divorce? 7/26/2016 Q&A What Can I Do to Keep Things From Unwinding? 7/19/2016 Q&A What if My Mate Isn't Committed to the EMSO Contract? 7/19/2016 Q&A How Can We Move Forward While There is Still Lying to My Face? 7/13/2016 Q&A How do we Face this Logistical Challenge? 6/28/2016 Q&A Would it be Better Without Me? 6/28/2016 Q&A How Should I Continue From Here? 6/21/2016 Q&A Is This an Unsafe Person? 6/21/2016 Q&A What About Financial Safety? 6/14/2016 Q&A What's the Right Thing to Do Here? 6/03/2016 Q&A Should I Leave and Work on Me? 6/03/2016 Q&A What Direction Should I Take? 6/03/2016 Q&A How Long Should I Wait for My Spouse to Return? 4/28/2016 Q&A What Will the Future Hold in This Scenario? 4/28/2016 Q&A How Can I Feel Safety in an Unsafe Environment? 4/28/2016 Q&A What Should I Be Looking for From My Spouse to Feel Safe? 4/28/2016 Q&A (HH) How do You Know When to Invite an Unfaithful Spouse Home? 3/24/2016 Q&A Are There any Interventions you Suggest? 2/09/2016 Q&A What's Reasonable to Make Me Feel Safe? 2/02/2016 Q&A Can I Feel Safe? 2/02/2016 Q&A What's Left to Do at This Point? 1/26/2016 Q&A How Can I Ensure My Safety? 1/21/2016 Q&A Is it Possible to Heal All of This Alone? 12/23/2015 Q&A Do I Have a Right to Contact the AP's Spouse? 12/15/2015 Q&A Do I Just Wait for Limerance to Fade? 12/15/2015 Q&A Why Won't He Talk About It? 11/19/2015 Q&A Why Does He Want to Fix the Marriage While He is With His AP? 11/10/2015 Q&A My Spouse Is Not Taking Personal Responsibility and May Be a Sex Addict. I Feel Like Giving Up, Should I? 11/04/2015 Q&A How Do I Communicate the Importance of My Spouse's Recovery? 10/20/2015 Q&A Is it Safe For Me to Stay? 10/20/2015 Q&A How can I Pretend to be Happy When I'm Not? 7/07/2015 Q&A Should I Separate my Finances? 6/02/2015 Q&A How Can I Set Boundaries While my Spouse is Having an Affair? 5/12/2015 Q&A How Long do I Wait for my Wife to End her Affair? 4/21/2015 Q&A What Can I do Since my Husband is Still in His Affair? 3/20/2015 Q&A Should I Cut off All Contact With my Husband? 3/20/2015 Q&A What's the Difference Between Personal Recovery and Marital Recovery? 2/20/2015 Q&A How can my Husband Consider Himself Single? 2/20/2015 Q&A My Unfaithful Spouse Will Not Share. What do I do? 1/12/2015 Pages« first‹ previous1234next ›last »