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Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 1189 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A Will it Take 10 Years to Heal? 12/16/2016 Q&A Did we Miss the Point of the 20 Cost Exercise? 12/16/2016 Q&A Should we Divorce or is there Still a Chance of a Happy Ending After this Nightmare? 12/16/2016 Q&A Should I be Farther Along in Recovery? 12/16/2016 Michael & Alicia's Mentor Video 12/15/2016 Q&A How Can We Heal from Her Affair Under these Circumstances? 12/07/2016 Surviving Infidelity: Are You Looking for an Explanation? 12/01/2016 Q&A Can we Fully Recover from Her Affair Without Moving Our Family? 11/30/2016 Q&A What are the Signs to Watch for to Know a Liar has Stopped Lying? 11/30/2016 Q&A Should 12 Step Work be a Requirement for a Sex Addict Wanting to Salvage the Marriage? 11/30/2016 Q&A Is it Time for Me to Give Up if She Doesn't Commit to Recovery? 11/30/2016 Q&A Is it OK for Me to Say No Even Though it May Make Things Worse? 11/30/2016 Q&A What is Protocol for a Couple in this Post Affair Scenario? 11/30/2016 Q&A Should I Inform My Children of their Mother's Affair? 11/30/2016 Q&A How do We Combat the Marathoning? 11/23/2016 Q&A How do We Deal With Chronic Pain, Medication Addiction, and Affair Recovery? 11/23/2016 Q&A How Can I Find the Truth From so Long Ago? 11/23/2016 Q&A How Can I Combat My Bitterness Towards My Wife and Her Affair Partner? 11/23/2016 Q&A Any Advice for Us After a Huge Backslide? 11/23/2016 Q&A Can You Please Explain Marathoning? 11/23/2016 Q&A Could My Knowledge of their Affair Add to My Hopelessness? 11/23/2016 Q&A How is Recovery Possible After a 10 Year Affair? 11/23/2016 Q&A Can I Recover Without Fully Knowing About Her Affair? 11/23/2016 Q&A How am I Supposed to be the Best Husband I Can be After She Cheated? 11/23/2016 Bad Advice for Hurt Spouses 11/16/2016 Q&A Is there Any Hope for Getting Over the Pain and Anger of Betrayal? 11/02/2016 Q&A How Can I Help My Husband Feel Safe While I Can't Remember Details that He Wants? 11/02/2016 Q&A Are We Losing Our Vigilance in Recovery? 11/02/2016 Q&A What Rules Should We Follow During Our No Contact Separation? 11/02/2016 Q&A Should I Just Let Him Divorce Me after His Affairs? 11/02/2016 Q&A How Can I Share My Anxiety and Concerns With Him? 10/24/2016 Q&A Is it Normal to Relive the Days During the Affair to Rewrite History? 10/24/2016 Q&A How Can I Get Past this Lifelong Belief System? 10/24/2016 Q&A How Can I Know if My Unfaithful Spouse is Truly Committed to the Marriage and Recovery? 10/24/2016 Q&A Is it Possible to Stay in My Marriage With Fear Based Motivation and Find True Happiness Eventually? 10/24/2016 Q&A Are There Any Similarities Between the Betrayed Spouses that Don't Reconcile? 10/24/2016 Q&A How do I Manage My Husband's Recovery? 10/24/2016 Q&A Will the Nightmare Ever End so I Can Find a Brighter Future? 10/24/2016 Q&A Is it Worth Taking This Journey of Recovery? 10/18/2016 Q&A Who Would Want to be Empathetic Toward Their Spouse if They Had an Affair? 10/12/2016 Q&A How can My Unfaithful Mate Help Me When I Flood Emotionally? 10/12/2016 Q&A Why do I Break Down When I'm Shown Empathy? 10/12/2016 Q&A Was His Infidelity Based on Me Not Being Who He Wants? 10/12/2016 Q&A How did My Cycle of Grace Become My Cycle of Failure? 10/11/2016 Q&A If He's Been so Good at Lying, How Can I Trust His Story of the Affair? 10/11/2016 Q&A I was Unfaithful. Why do I Feel Betrayed? 9/28/2016 Q&A How Can I Productively Let My Spouse Know Our Current Reality After His Affairs? 9/28/2016 Q&A Can We Heal Without Counseling or Other Work After Their Affair? 9/28/2016 Q&A How Can I Handle My Wife Not Being Intimate After Her Affair? 9/28/2016 Q&A My Husband Insists We Move Forward Without Discussing the Affair. Is it Possible? 9/22/2016 Pages« first‹ previous…141516171819202122…next ›last »