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Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons 1189 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A How Do You Heal When the Wayward Spouse Cannot Recall the Details That You Need? 8/23/2019 Q&A How Much Time Do I Need to Give My Mate to Heal? 8/23/2019 Healing After Infidelity: What Doesn't Work. 8/21/2019 Q&A What Do You Suggest for My Husband and I? 8/20/2019 Q&A How Can We Create Safety When Talking about the Affair? 8/20/2019 Q&A What Should I Do? 8/20/2019 Q&A What Would You Recommend to Continue Our Healing Journey? 8/20/2019 Q&A Would It Be a Waste for Us to Attend the EMS Weekend? 8/20/2019 Q&A Am I Rushing My Healing Process? 8/20/2019 Q&A Is It Normal to Feel Heartbroken on the D-Day Anniversary? 8/20/2019 Q&A Is It Wrong for Me to Accept My Husband's Comfort? 8/14/2019 Q&A How Can We Overcome the Pain of Anniversary Dates? 8/14/2019 Q&A What Steps Do You Recommend in Preparation for EMS Weekend? 8/14/2019 Q&A What Do You Recommend for Changing My Thought Pattern around Intrusive Thoughts? 8/14/2019 Q&A How Can We Create Safety in Professional Environments? 8/14/2019 Q&A What Do I Do about My Husband's Yellow Light Behaviors? 8/14/2019 Q&A How Can I Show My Spouse That I'm on the Right Path to Recovery? 8/14/2019 How to Find Answers 8/14/2019 Trauma and Infidelity 8/07/2019 Q&A How Do You Know If You’re Acting in Love and Not in an Accusatory Way? 8/06/2019 Q&A Is It Possible for the Wayward Spouse to Not Disclose Fully, yet Find Themselves Fully Recommitted after Discovery? 8/06/2019 Q&A Which Path Should I Take? 8/06/2019 Q&A How Do I Process All This in a Healthy Way? 8/06/2019 Q&A What Are Your Thoughts on Confronting His Affair Partner? 8/06/2019 Q&A What Exactly Does Repair Work Look Like? 8/06/2019 Q&A Can I Move Forward If I'm Concerned about Honesty? 8/06/2019 Q&A Do You Have Advice for My Situation? 8/06/2019 Q&A Would You Please Help Me Understand? 8/06/2019 Q&A What Does Recovery Look like If the Wayward Spouse Isn't Grieved about the Affair? 8/02/2019 Q&A Do You Think Its Good to Focus on the Friendship Aspect of the Marriage during Recovery? 8/02/2019 Q&A Does It Make Sense to Continue Our Relationship? 8/02/2019 Q&A Has Something Gone Wrong in My Husband's Recovery? 7/24/2019 Q&A How Can I Be Transparent in a Way That Doesn't Hurt My Mate? 7/24/2019 Q&A How Much Time Is Reasonable to Talk per Day or Even per Week to Process a 10 Year Affair? 7/24/2019 Q&A Do You Have Suggestions for Understanding and Expressing My Emotions? 7/24/2019 Q&A How Do I Break out of My Codependency? 7/10/2019 Q&A Is There Hope When the Wayward Refuses to Break Contact? 7/10/2019 Q&A How Can I Get My Spouse to Understand What I Need? 7/10/2019 Q&A How Can I Implement Boundaries More Effectively? 7/10/2019 Q&A How Can I Communicate Concerns without Creating Conflict? 7/03/2019 Q&A Do You Have Any Words of Wisdom for Me? 7/03/2019 Q&A What Are Your Thoughts about My Behavior? 7/03/2019 Q&A How Do I Own My Part in the Marriage Dynamic If I’m Not Aware of It? 6/26/2019 Q&A How Can I Encourage the Wayward Spouse to Pursue Healing? 6/26/2019 Expectations of Empathy: A Betrayed Spouse’s Journey 6/26/2019 Q&A How Can I Communicate to My Spouse That I Am Not Excusing My Affair Partner’s Part in the Affair? 6/19/2019 Q&A How Do I Feel Safe If My Spouse Isn't as Committed to Recovery as I Am? 6/19/2019 Q&A How Can I Make It Clear That I'm Choosing by Mate over the Affair Partner? 6/19/2019 Q&A How Do I Keep from Getting Resentful? 6/19/2019 Q&A Am I Being Enabling? 6/11/2019 Pages« first‹ previous…67891011121314…next ›last »