Safety in Recovery The hallmark of any healthy recovery is safety. Both spouses have to feel safe in order to rebuild a strong, new marriage from the ashes of the old one. Learn how to make your mate feel safe and why it is so important that you do. Must Reads more less Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Rebuilding Trust After An Affair The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision How to Survive Infidelity Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity The Problem with Forgiveness Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse The Power of Small Groups 1045 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A How Can I Help my Husband Forgive Himself for Leaving his Affair Partner? 4/21/2015 Q&A Does Giving my Wife Full Disclosure in Therapy Make me Less of a Man? 4/21/2015 Q&A How Long do I Wait for my Wife to End her Affair? 4/21/2015 Q&A How do I Obtain Closure When the AP is his Ex-Wife? 4/21/2015 Q&A How Does a Betrayed Spouse Deal with Lying by Omission? 4/15/2015 Q&A My Husband's AP May be Pregnant with his Child. What do I do? 4/15/2015 Q&A What do I do With a New Discovery About my Husband's Behavior? 4/15/2015 Q&A (HFH) Rick, What was Your Personal Experience With Relapse? 4/15/2015 Q&A Am I Overreacting to Setbacks, and is it Too Soon to Move Home? 4/15/2015 Q&A What's Your Advice on Moving? 3/31/2015 Q&A Stuck!? 3/31/2015 Q&A What are Your Views on the Affair Partner? 3/31/2015 Q&A How Can I Stop This Obsession? 3/31/2015 Q&A What Can I do Since my Husband is Still in His Affair? 3/20/2015 Q&A Should I Give up on my Dishonest Husband? 3/20/2015 Q&A How Can I Deal With my Rage? 3/20/2015 Q&A Would more Detail Help me Heal? 3/20/2015 Q&A How can I Get my Husband to Cut off Contact With His AP? 3/20/2015 Q&A Should I Cut off All Contact With my Husband? 3/20/2015 Q&A Is it Just a Leap of Faith? 3/20/2015 Q&A How Long does Limerance Last? 3/20/2015 Q&A Does my Spouse Need Therapy or Divorce? 3/20/2015 Q&A Should I Retake Harboring Hope Since I've Discovered More Information? 3/20/2015 Q&A Is EMS Online the Right Fit for Us? 3/16/2015 Q&A How Can a Just God Allow This? How can I Get rid of this Pain? 3/10/2015 Q&A After 3 Separate Discoveries of Infidelity, How Can I Tell if This is True Change? 3/10/2015 Q&A When is it Time to Stop Giving my Husband Second Chances? 3/10/2015 Q&A My Husband Refuses to Sever Ties with his AP. What do you Suggest I do? 3/10/2015 Q&A What is Each Spouse's Role in Handling Triggers? 2/24/2015 Q&A Is my Spouse a Sex Addict? 2/20/2015 Q&A How can my Husband Consider Himself Single? 2/20/2015 Q&A Should my Spouse Take a Lie Detector? 2/20/2015 Q&A How can I Know if my Husband may be Having Another Affair? 2/20/2015 Q&A How can I Feel Safe? 2/20/2015 Q&A How can I Stop Being my Spouse's Accountability Partner? 2/20/2015 Q&A Can I Stay With a Sex Addict? 2/10/2015 Q&A How am I Supposed to Accept the Idea of Relapse? 2/10/2015 Q&A Is it Possible that I Won't Recover? 2/10/2015 Q&A Should I Tell the AP's Spouse? 2/10/2015 Q&A Is Relapse Inevitable? 2/10/2015 Q&A How can we Agree on Financial Safety? 2/10/2015 Q&A When is Physical Intimacy Ok? 2/10/2015 Q&A (HFH) How do I Stop Lying to my Spouse and Myself? 1/29/2015 Q&A How Can I Be Safe With my Daughter Contacting my Husbands AP? 1/29/2015 Q&A Looking for Hope 1/23/2015 Q&A Is it Safe to Stay? 1/23/2015 Q&A How Can I Get Past the Repulsion I have Towards my Spouse? 1/23/2015 Q&A Can I Leave Him? 1/23/2015 Q&A How do we Get to Ground Zero and end this Cycle? 1/23/2015 Q&A My Spouse is Maintaining Contact with his AP. What do I do? 1/23/2015 Pages« first‹ previous…131415161718192021next ›last »