Safety in Recovery The hallmark of any healthy recovery is safety. Both spouses have to feel safe in order to rebuild a strong, new marriage from the ashes of the old one. Learn how to make your mate feel safe and why it is so important that you do. Must Reads more less How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted How to Survive Infidelity The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors The Problem with Forgiveness The Power of Small Groups Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Rebuilding Trust After An Affair 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) 1044 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A How Long Should I Wait for My Mate to Come out of Limerence? 6/27/2018 Q&A How Can We Protect Our Safety Protocol While Traveling? 6/15/2018 Q&A Are There Boundaries That Need to Be Followed as an Accountability Partner? 6/15/2018 Looking for Safety: Harboring Hope 6/12/2018 Q&A Do You Have Additional Resources for Overcoming Gaslighting? 6/08/2018 Q&A How Am I Supposed to Interact with the Family Members That Helped Hide My Mates Affair? 6/08/2018 Q&A How Should I Handle My Husbands Relapse? 6/07/2018 Q&A Can Someone with Self-Awareness and Boundaries Still Relapse? 6/06/2018 Q&A My Betrayed Spouse Wants Me to Contact the Affair Partner. What Should I Do? 6/06/2018 Q&A My Mate Doesn't Believe I've Disclosed Everything, What Should I Do? 5/23/2018 Q&A What Should I Do If My Mates Recovery Isn't Consistent? 5/16/2018 Q&A What Do I Do about My Mother-In-Law? 5/16/2018 Q&A Should I Put My Running Shoes on and Get out Now? 5/09/2018 Q&A How Do I Communicate That If He Doesn't Get Help That It's Over? 5/09/2018 Q&A Is This a Sign of My Husband's Lack of Commitment? 5/09/2018 Q&A What Do I Do While Waiting for My Spouse to Be Safe? 5/09/2018 Q&A What Do I Say to Family Members That Would Like Me to File for Divorce? 5/07/2018 Q&A How Do I Deal with a Lack of Safety in Recovery? 5/07/2018 Q&A How Can I Set Safe Boundaries in Our Recovery? 5/07/2018 Q&A Is It Safe for Us to Move? 5/02/2018 Q&A Short of a Polygraph, Can I Trust That He's Telling Me the Truth? 5/02/2018 Q&A Is My Wife Addicted to Lying? 4/25/2018 Q&A Do You Think My Mate Is Being Honest with Me? 4/25/2018 Q&A What Should I Do When My Mate Is Ranting at Me? 4/18/2018 Q&A How Can I Reach Full Disclosure While Protecting Myself from Intrusive Thoughts? 4/18/2018 Q&A What Should I Focus On? 4/05/2018 Q&A How Do I Go on without Full Disclosure? 4/05/2018 Q&A How Can We Protect Ourselves from Relapse? 4/05/2018 Q&A What Are Your Recommendations for My Situation? 4/05/2018 Q&A What Do You Recommend for the Habitual Liar? 4/05/2018 Q&A How Can I Prevent Relapse and Be Safe for My Wife? 3/23/2018 Q&A What Should I Do If My Unfaithful Spouse Won't Share the Whole Story? 3/23/2018 Q&A What Actions Are Necessary from the Unfaithful during Recovery? 3/23/2018 Q&A How Do We Protect Our Young Children during Recovery? 3/23/2018 Q&A How Do You Truly Regain Trust? 3/23/2018 Q&A What Things Do the Betrayed Need to Consider When Deciding Whether or Not to Reconcile? 3/23/2018 Q&A What Should I Do If My Mate Isn't Trying to Recover? 3/23/2018 Q&A Should I Be Concerned about My Unfaithful Mate's Intrusive Thoughts? 3/12/2018 Q&A Is It Beneficial to Allow Your Mate to Read Your Journal? 3/12/2018 Q&A Could His Behaviors towards His Co-Workers Explain His Disconnection with Me? 3/12/2018 Q&A Is My Husband Safe? 2/28/2018 Communication Killers: How to Remedy Stonewalling 2/28/2018 How to Not Make Things Worse: Stonewalling 2/21/2018 Q&A What Do I Do with Intense Thoughts during Sexual Interactions? 2/14/2018 Q&A Is It Acceptable Behavior for My Husband to Have a Female Friend? 2/14/2018 Q&A How Do I Deal with On-Going D-Days? 2/14/2018 Q&A How to We Navigate Recovery with a History of Abuse? 2/14/2018 Q&A Is a Separation Unreasonable after Multiple Relapses? 2/14/2018 Practical Tools for Betrayed Spouses 2/14/2018 Q&A How Can We Maintain Safety While Navigating Discovery? 2/07/2018 Pages« first‹ previous…456789101112…next ›last »