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How to Survive Infidelity The Power of Small Groups Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? 408 Resources Type Title Posted Looking for Safety: Harboring Hope 6/12/2018 Q&A Am I Stuck in the Healing Process? 4/11/2018 Q&A How Do We Heal When My Spouse Has No Empathy for Me? 2/28/2018 Q&A Why Is His Perspective of Us and of Love Getting Worse? 1/23/2018 Q&A How Do I Cope with the Deception? 12/20/2017 Q&A How Can I Get past These Incredibly Painful Feelings? 12/20/2017 Q&A How Do I Handle Forgiveness When the AP Is a Family Member? 12/20/2017 Q&A Will This Pain Ever Let up over Time or Will Seeing This Constantly Keep Us All from Healing? 12/20/2017 Q&A Does the Betrayed Spouse Have to Know Every Affair in Order to Heal the Marriage? 12/20/2017 Q&A How Do We Handle the Trauma of Infidelity? 9/27/2017 Q&A Will EMDR Help with This Notion? 9/06/2017 Q&A What Do You Recommend in My Situation? 8/16/2017 Q&A What Can I Do to Help Me with My Anxiety about the Affair Partner? 8/10/2017 Q&A Why Can't I Get over the Affair Even Though My Husband Is Doing All the Work to Rebuild? 8/10/2017 Q&A How Do I Manage My Triggers? 7/26/2017 Q&A When Will My Husband Visualize Himself with Me Instead of Seeing Me with the AP 7/26/2017 Q&A How Can I Help My Partner with Their Flooding? 7/26/2017 Q&A With Multiple Discoveries over 2 Years, How Do I Know She's Told Me Everything? 7/19/2017 Q&A How Do I Handle Comparison with the Affair Partner and Changing My Mindset of My Self-Worth? 7/12/2017 Q&A Am I Being Emotionally Abused since His Affair? 7/12/2017 Q&A Can You Give Specific Suggestions to Handle the Locations of the Acting out with the Affair Partner? 7/12/2017 Q&A What Safe Questions Can I Ask to Regain Our Openness but without Causing Me Pain? 7/12/2017 Q&A How Do I Get past My Negative Self Image? 7/12/2017 Q&A Why Has New Information Been Such a Major Setback for Me? 7/05/2017 Q&A Am I Wrong to Feel I Can’t Get Past His Infidelity? 6/28/2017 Q&A What Do I Do Now to Cope and Heal from His past History? 6/21/2017 Q&A How Do I Handle My Bitterness and Anger Coming Back after Giving Birth? 6/21/2017 Q&A How Can I Heal from the Dishonor of His Sharing My Secrets with Her? 6/21/2017 Q&A Is This All Part of the Process or Is It Something Else? 6/07/2017 Q&A How Do I Help My Wife Overcome Her Shame? 5/26/2017 Q&A Is My Wife Safe? 5/26/2017 Q&A Would a Separation Be Appropriate or Beneficial for Me to Get Healing? 5/26/2017 Q&A Can My Deceitful and Unfaithful Spouse Really Change? 5/24/2017 Q&A How Can I Encourage My Spouse to Engage in Healing Conversations? 5/24/2017 Q&A Am I Dealing with Accusatory Suffering? 5/24/2017 Q&A How Do I Deal with This Level of Detail? 5/24/2017 Q&A How Can I Share My Intrusive Thoughts without Him Feeling Shame? 5/24/2017 Q&A My Spouse Is Stuck. How Can I Help Her Heal?” 5/17/2017 Q&A Why Do I Feel Like I've Regressed to Where I Was 10 Years Ago? 5/17/2017 Q&A How Can We Handle the Embarrassment of People Knowing What My Spouse Did? 5/17/2017 Q&A How Do We Move Forward If I Don't Remember 100% of the Affair Details? 5/17/2017 Q&A How Can I Share My Hurt without Her Feeling Shame? 5/10/2017 Q&A How Do We Combat Triggers for Upcoming Events? 5/10/2017 Q&A Is It Me or My Trauma That's Holding Us Back? 5/03/2017 Q&A How do we handle the details? 4/05/2017 Q&A What can I do about intrusive thoughts and images arising from the facts I know? 4/05/2017 Q&A How do I Heal from PTSD Caused by Years of Deceit? 4/05/2017 Q&A How Can I Accept This Reality and Let Go? 3/08/2017 Q&A What Do You Advise for Me to Set Safe Boundaries and Expectations? 3/08/2017 Q&A What Should I Do as the Unfaithful When Triggers Arise? 2/02/2017 Pages« first‹ previous123456789next ›last »