Q&A How Can I Get past These Incredibly Painful Feelings?

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Question

We are approaching 14 months since D-Day. For the most part things are good and I am committed to staying in our marriage. My husband is also very committed and is doing everything possible to help us move forward to a loving marriage. My problem is my ego. I can’t stand the thought that this person tried to steal the life I built over 27 years. I’m starting to forgive my husband but I’m stuck on hate for her. She knew us and our family and she tried to move me out and take over my life. I find this so cruel. How can I get past these incredibly painful feelings? She lives rent free in my brain, I want her out!

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