My husband has seen two separate counselors since D-Day who have both recommended that he continue to perform at his rock band gigs even though he has used them in the past to meet women. My husband has pointed out that it was only once out of hundreds of performances and that the feeling he gets from performing is like none other. I feel terribly unsafe when he goes, but because his counselors have advised that he continue performing, I feel as though my requests for him to take a break for a while are not taken seriously. It hurts tremendously but he doesn't seem to care about the great deal of anxiety and pain these cause me. Please advise.