Q&A What Does the Betrayed Spouse Do When the Betrayer Just Won’t End the Affair and Shows Signs of Limerence?

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My husband and I have been married 12 years. I found out about my husbands affair 3 months ago. At the time his emotional and physical affair with a coworker had only been a month long. He said he would cut it off. Fast forward 3 months and he relapsed with her 3 more times where contact started again and within 2 weeks they were physical. Each d-day got harder and harder for me. I set boundaries with him each time and we would reconcile to try to move forward. We signed up for EMS Online and on week 5 I saw the signs again and found out he was in contact with her and the emotional affair was full blown. He broke my boundaries and the contract of the class. What does the betrayed spouse do when the betrayer just won’t end the affair and shows signs of limerence?



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