I've given my husband eight months to figure things out. We attended EMS Weekend. He still has not closed the door to contact with his AP and she is still able to communicate with him. He's not doing any of his EMS homework and says he doesn't want to do my constant "list" of things that could help with my healing. He says he doesn't want to be “brow beaten” the rest of his life. I'm frustrated. I'm ready to move forward with him, but I can't as long as contact with the AP is open. I am almost to the end of my rope. This is hurting me, my children, and family life because he is so miserable with himself and even says maybe he still has feelings for his AP. I can't take much more. I need peace again in my home.