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Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse 1184 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A What Practical Steps Can I Take To Help Me Overcome the Overwhelming Moments in Recovery? 10/07/2021 Q&A Did I Do the Right Thing by Sharing My Trigger and How Do I Handle This Situation in the Future? 10/07/2021 Q&A How Can We Make Progress and How Can I Trust Him? 10/07/2021 Q&A Can You Provide Clarification on Not Asking Relational Comparison Questions? 9/08/2021 Q&A Where Do I Go After EMS Online? 8/17/2021 Q&A Should I Tell the Affair Partner’s Wife about the Affair? 8/17/2021 Q&A Do You Recommend Joining Harboring Hope or Hope For Healing after Completing EMS Online? 7/22/2021 Q&A Can You Explain Personal Responsibility in Regards to Infidelity? 7/22/2021 Q&A Can You Help Me Put a Little Light On Where I Am Stuck? 7/22/2021 Q&A How Do I Deal With His Advice without Feeling He Is Criticizing Me? 7/13/2021 Q&A How Do I Deal With the Physical Distance between Me and My Husband during Recovery? 7/13/2021 Q&A How Do I Reconcile with the Affair Partner Who Is My Sister? 7/08/2021 Q&A Is It Okay to Ask to the the 40 Cost Assignment from EMS Weekend Again? 7/08/2021 Q&A I'm Confused about the Cycle of Grace and Performance Management. Can You Please Explain? 6/17/2021 Q&A How Do I Deal With My Spouse Not Going All-In on Recovery? 6/17/2021 Q&A What Are the Effective Ways of Grieving and How Do I Know Which One Is Best For Me? 6/17/2021 Q&A Are We Trying to Recover Too Fast? 6/17/2021 Q&A How Can I Help Him Heal and Yet Remain Open and Honest with Him about the Facts and Not What His Feelings about the Facts Are? 6/17/2021 Q&A How Do We Continue to Try and Get along without Ever Speaking about the Affair or Any Problems? 6/17/2021 Q&A How Do I Navigate This Situation? 6/16/2021 Q&A Am I Hurting Us More by Not Letting Him Live at Home? 6/16/2021 Q&A What Resources Can I Give My Family for Supporting Me through This Time and Setting Healthy Boundaries? 6/16/2021 Q&A What Is the Best Response for My Husband? 6/16/2021 Q&A How Do I Help Him Understand That I Need to Know about All His Emotional Affairs? 6/16/2021 Q&A Is There Anything I Can Be Doing to Leave an Opening for a Different Path? 6/16/2021 Q&A How Do I Create a Safe Boundary for Myself While Showing Him Grace and Not Reject His Desire to Open up to Me and Reconnect? 6/16/2021 Q&A How Do I as the Betrayed Quit Hitting the Wrong Side of His Ambivalence? 6/16/2021 Q&A Are There Any Tips on How to Handle Someone Who Is Not Displaying Remorse, Is Full Of Anger and Pain, And Deeply Depressed? 6/16/2021 Q&A Did He Only Quit Because He Got Caught? 6/16/2021 Q&A Are My Good Acts Just More Manipulation? 6/03/2021 Q&A How Do I Handle My Complicated Family Situation? 6/03/2021 Q&A How Do I Deal With My Spouse’s Defensiveness? 6/03/2021 Q&A Is There Correlation to Infidelity and Attachment Styles? 5/25/2021 Q&A Do We Try to Get Ahead of Public Backlash? 5/25/2021 Q&A How Do I Love Her through Her Controlling Issues While Still Maintaining My Sanity? 5/25/2021 Q&A Should I Receive a Disclosure Letter from My Spouses Work in Hope for Healing? 5/25/2021 Hope Rising Conference 2021 Announcement: Words of Wisdom from Keynote Speaker Shauna Shanks 5/19/2021 Q&A Is It Wrong to Expect My Husband to Stop Contact with an Affair Partner Who Is Close to the Family and My Best Friend? 5/12/2021 Q&A Is It Too Soon to Begin Having Sex Again? 4/29/2021 Q&A What Are Your Thoughts about a Post Infidelity Contract? 4/29/2021 Q&A How Do I Get Him to See My Perspective? 4/29/2021 Q&A Is This Typical or Is My Husband Emotionally Immature? 4/29/2021 Q&A How Should I Answer Him When He Says I Should Forgive Him like the Bible Says to Forgive? 4/29/2021 Q&A How Do I Re-Engage with Family, Friends, And Normal Life? 4/29/2021 Q&A Can You Explain the Similarities and Differences between Confessing, Acknowledgement and Accountability? 4/29/2021 Q&A How Do I Deal with His Inability to Talk about Our Marriage? 4/29/2021 A Discussion on Anger, Boundaries and Regrets After Infidelity 4/21/2021 Q&A What Can I or Should I Do With the Thoughts in My Head? 4/13/2021 Q&A It Seems My Husband Is More Worried About His Self-Image Than Actually Healing, What Do I Do? 4/13/2021 Q&A What Else Can I Do, Other Than Be Honest and Give Her Space? 4/13/2021 Pages« first‹ previous123456789…next ›last »
