Samuel discusses a moment where he remembered 4 things his mentor told him to do to survive the chaos of recovery.
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4 Things to do When You're Circling Out of Control
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Loving Your Spouse in the 'in-between' period and well into reco
While I appreciate all the information on what can help couples right after disclosure, I would really appreciate having more information about what couples can do to heal their marriage in the 'in-between" period and even well into recovery. As a betrayed spouse, I am grateful that my husband has re-committed to the marriage, is doing everything to restore trust, and listens well (when I am triggered, relapse into anger, or occasionally feel insecure during physical intimacy). But I feel I need him to 'woo me back' and that seems to take a lot of thought in a very longstanding marriage, where before the affair we were just very comfortable with each other.
thank you chalant...
new blog is up for you chalant....hope it helps you