All Categories After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need. Must Reads more less 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity How to Survive Infidelity Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair The Problem with Forgiveness Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors The Power of Small Groups 5028 Resources Type Title Posted If my mate is being insensitive in recovery and I have to tell him he's hurting me, does he really love me, shouldn't he know what to do? 10/02/2012 Is it codependent for the hurt spouse to manage their mate's recovery if they aren't feeling safe? If unfaithful spouse refuses to get help what should they do? 10/02/2012 Rick's Q & A Call on October 8 10/02/2012 Is it unreasonable to expect my mate to at least personally explore her issues with intimacy or is her answer that she's praying enough? 10/02/2012 Rick's Q & A Call on September 24 9/10/2012 Earlier in our recovery process i filed for divorce, we're now doing better than ever, I've put the divorce on hold, but should I cancel it? 9/10/2012 My mate won't tell me what's happened, is there anyway to help him tell me the story of what occured so i can move on? 9/10/2012 Road to Recovery, series 2, part 3 8/29/2012 Road to Recovery, series 2, part 2 8/29/2012 Road to Recovery, series 2, part 1 8/29/2012 Road to Recovery, series 1, part 3 8/29/2012 Road to Recovery, series 1, part 2 8/29/2012 Road to Recovery, series 1 part 1 8/29/2012 Rick's Q & A Call on September 10 8/27/2012 My husband and I are seperated while I work on my healing - he's obessessed with wanting to save the marriage, how do convince him I'm interested in reconciliation? 8/27/2012 What can I do to feel comfortable when my wife traves since her affair was with her AP who is out of town? 8/23/2012 We are 14 months into recovery and are doing better, but we're still not physically intimate and can't talk about the affair any suggestions for closeness and comfort? 8/23/2012 How much information is enough? My mate keeps asking questions, what can I do to help her move on? 8/20/2012 How shoud my husband respond if he runs into his AP? Is it wong to expect that he stand up for me and the kids? 8/20/2012 Rick's Q & A Call on August 27 8/14/2012 We are separated due to my husband's infidelty, is it unreasonable for me to request he get counseling before we reconcile? 8/14/2012 My husband has sexual abuse that we believe may have contributed to his infidelty, should he do individual therapy before we do couples counseling? 7/30/2012 How do you become remorseful when you really didn't want to give up the affair, I feel bad for the pain I caused, but don't feel bad for having done it 7/30/2012 My wife is still in contact with her AP, what should I do? 7/24/2012 Rick's Q & A Call on July 30 7/24/2012 We're at the one year anniversary and I'm not handling it well, any suggestions before I make things worse? 7/24/2012 What boundaries can I set up to keep my family out of our recovery? 7/09/2012 Rick's Q & A Call on July 23 7/09/2012 It's been over a month since EMS and my mate has yet to commit to at least considering the marriage, what can I do? 7/09/2012 Repairing the Damage after Infidelity 7/03/2012 Interview of EMS Online Participants 7/01/2012 Handling Betrayal 6/27/2012 Rick's Q & A Call on July 9 6/25/2012 My husband's AP is pregnant with his child, I want to reconcile, but I don't want him to have contact with her 6/25/2012 My husband and I disagree over his feelings for his AP, I think he was in love which he denies, how do we arrive at seeing it the same way? 6/19/2012 I feel trapped between my daughter and my husband, she's angry about what his choices have cost her, what should I do? 6/19/2012 Pain Not Transformed Is Transmitted: Healing After An Affair 6/06/2012 Rick's Q & A Call on June 25 5/22/2012 Guide for testimonial 5/17/2012 I lied to my friends about my husband leading them to beleive he was abusive to justify my infidelty, how do I make amends and help heal those relationships? 5/16/2012 I turned my family against my husband during my affair, do you have any suggestions of what I can do to heal those relationships? 5/16/2012 Rick's Q & A Call on May 21 5/16/2012 My husband didn't give full disclosure 2 years ago at EMS and I just discoverd there was another affair, I'm back at ground zero, how can I heal from his deception? 5/16/2012 My mate's AP is still involved in our circle of friends, how do we inform our friends we no longer want to be included in activities involving the other woman? 5/16/2012 Financial Infidelity: 6 Tips to Fix It 5/11/2012 My husband is a sex addict, how can we develop and maintain a healthy sexual relationship? 5/08/2012 My wife says she still loves her AP is that normal and is she really comitted to the marriage? 5/08/2012 How long does it take for remiders to go away and for my mate's temptation to subside? 5/08/2012 Rick's Q & A Call on May 14 5/08/2012 How To Handle Pain: Healing After An Affair 4/26/2012 Pages« first‹ previous…888990919293949596…next ›last »
