Trauma of Infidelity

Infidelity is a unique type of pain and carries with it unique emotional consequences. Find solutions and suggestions for healing from the devastating effects of betrayal here.

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Video icon Q&A What Should We Look for in a Therapist to Ensure They Can Provide the Specialized Support Needed for Infidelity Recovery?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Stop the Comparisons, Build Confidence, and Get Better at Sex Without Feeling Like I’m Trying to Be Like the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A What Is the Best Way to Build Trust Around My Husband’s Actions and My Triggers?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Respond When the Betrayed Ridicules, Shames, and Slanders Me for What I Have Done?
Video icon Help With Incessant Triggers and Reminders
Video icon Betrayal Trauma: Tips for Talking with Your Spouse
Video icon A Toxic Mix: Gaslighting and Infidelity
Video icon Signs There Could Be Abusive Behaviors in Your Relationship
Video icon Q&A How Do I Address Her Readiness to Engage With Someone So Despicable Versus Her Resistance to Reconnect Intimately With Me?
Video icon Creating Healing Spaces
Video icon Q&A How Do I Cope With the Resurgence of Past Traumas Triggered by Such Betrayal?
Video icon Q&A How Do You Stop Thinking About and Forgive The Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A Where Can I Find Help for My Mate’s Cognitive Issues Surrounding the Lessons and My Grief?
Video icon Q&A How Can We Overcome Arousal Issues Resulting From Disclosure?
Video icon The Truth About Lying
Video icon Psychological Abuse Within Infidelity
Video icon Q&A How Does Betrayal Affect Pregnancy and the Well-Being of the Unborn Child?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Get the Affair Partners Out of My Head?
Video icon Regulating Our Stress Response During Recovery
Video icon Q&A How Do I Help My Wife Feel Safe When She Is Triggered?
Video icon Manifestation of Shame Part 1: The Unfaithful
Text icon Betrayal Trauma: How We Get Stuck in Trauma Bonds
Video icon Q&A How Do I Get over the Fact He Wanted to Walk Out on Us?
Video icon What Does Doing the Work of Infidelity Recovery Mean for the Unfaithful - Infidelity Recovery
Video icon Q&A How Do I Communicate Love, Compassion, and Empathy during the Discovery Process or Questioning?
Video icon Community for Healing from Infidelity – Affair Recovery
Video icon Q&A How Can I Help My Mate Understand the Devastation I’m Experiencing Because of Them Giving Me An STD?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Commit to This Marriage When I Promised Myself I’d Never Stay with Someone Who Cheated On Me?
Text icon Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery
Video icon Q&A How Do I Heal from the Profound Pain Caused by My Unfaithful Spouse Treating Me with Disdain for So Long?
Text icon Healing After an Affair: Emotional Flooding and Reminders
Video icon Q&A How Do I Stop the Triggers and Reminders When Every Day They Are There?
Video icon Q&A Is It Common for Betrayed Spouses to Have Trouble with Depression and Lack of Focus Which Detrimentally Affects Their Work?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Let Go of What Happened and Fully Re-Engage with My Mate?
Video icon Q&A Is My Mate’s Inability to Experience Emotions Due to Deep Trauma or Something More Problematic?
Video icon Q&A Is My Lack of Emotion Normal or Am I Experiencing Something Much Worse?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Help My Spouse Acknowledge That Being in an Affair for So Long Has Affected the Way They See Themselves, Me, and Our Relationship Sexually?
Video icon Q&A Can You Help Us to Understand in What Ways a Long-Term Affair with a Toxic Affair Partner Effect the Recovery Process?
Video icon Q&A Am I Struggling Because I Still Feel Unsafe in Recovery?
Video icon Q&A How Do We Heal from Sexual Abuse in Our Marriage?
Video icon Q&A When Will the Constant Feeling That Another Betrayal Is Right around the Corner Fade?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Continue Supporting Her While Taking Care of My Heart and Mental Health?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Let Myself Be Happy Again?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Get past the Uncontrollable Fear of This Happening Again or That It Is Still Happening?
Video icon Q&A How Much Harder Will Our Recovery Be in This Situation?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Emotionally Connect with Someone Who Treats Me This Way?
Video icon Q&A How Long Should I Accept and Validate His Exaggerated Reactions as a Result of My Previously Reckless Behaviors?
Video icon Q&A Is It Wrong to Feel a Sense of a Sexual Revolution, after His Affair?
Video icon Q&A Will the Betrayed’s Irritability Ever Go Away?
Video icon Q&A What Do I Do When the Betrayed Spouse Shuts Me Out and Doesn’t Want to Talk about His Pain, Unless Forced?