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	Understanding the Phases of Recovery: Is this normal?	10/12/2026
	Infidelity + Life: When the Affair Isn’t Your Only Crisis	9/28/2026
	Reclaiming Your Power Through Intervention	9/16/2026
	How to Forgive When You Can't Forget	9/14/2026
	His Addiction, Her Affair: Healing When Both Are Betrayed	8/31/2026

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	Q&A Is Looking at Porn as Damaging as Having an Affair?	9/29/2026
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	Q&A How Do We Respond to Intrusive Thoughts Without Reinforcing Them?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Do I Respond to Old Urges & Pathways Without Becoming Overly Vigilant?	9/29/2026
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4630 Resources

Type	Title	Posted
	Rick's Q & A Call on February 17, 2014	2/10/2014
	Rick's Q & A Call on February 10, 2014	2/03/2014
	Rick's Q & A Call on February 3, 2014	1/27/2014
	Rick's Q & A Call on January 27, 2014	1/20/2014
	Rick's Q & A Call on January 20, 2014	1/13/2014
	Rick's Q & A Call on January 13, 2014	1/06/2014
	Rick's Q & A Call on January 6, 2014	12/30/2013
	Rick's Q & A Call on December 23, 2013	12/16/2013
	Rick's Q & A Call on December 16, 2013	12/09/2013
	Rick's Q & A Call on December 9, 2013	12/02/2013
	I have no desire to be physically intimate with my mate since his infidelity, what can I do?	11/26/2013
	Rick's Q & A Call on December 2, 2013	11/26/2013
	Rick's Q & A Call on November 25, 2013	11/18/2013
	How do I forgive myself for what I've done? I can't stop confessing and asking for forgiveness, how do I accept forgiveness?	11/18/2013
	My husband is the hurt spouse and doesn't want to get help, things are getting better as I follow your advice, but can we recover if he doesn't get help?	11/18/2013
	How do you deal with never knowing the truth and how do I handle his anger when I ask questions?	11/18/2013
	Rick's Q & A Call on November 18, 2013	11/11/2013
	Rick's Q & A Call on November 11, 2013	11/04/2013
	Rick's Q & A Call on November 4, 2013	10/28/2013
	Rick's Q & A Call on October 28, 2013	10/21/2013
	Can someone act out sexually and not enjoy the experience?	10/21/2013
	We've entered the maintenance stage of recovery and my husband seems to be moving back into pretend normal, what can I do?	10/21/2013
	We are seperated because my unfaithful mate says he needs to be focused on God, am I being a fool?	10/21/2013
	What is the difference between fantasy (while acting out) and fantasizing?	10/21/2013
	Types of Affairs Radio Episode Preview	10/15/2013
	How can sex addicts fight denial and self-deception? Can our mates ever be safe with us?	10/14/2013
	My husband and I can't talk about his new job with out becoming defensive, how do we have a productive conversation and say on track with our recovery?	10/14/2013
	How did your wife respond when you relapsed? Was it more difficult than the first time?	10/14/2013
	My husband is having an emotional affair and won't address it. What are my options?	10/14/2013
	Rick's Q & A Call on October 21, 2013	10/14/2013
	We're six months into recovery and my husband seems to slipping back into old patterns. What can I do?	10/07/2013
	Rick's Q & A Call on October 14, 2013	10/07/2013
	I've lost my sexual desire for my wife after learning of all she's done. What can I do?	10/07/2013
	My husbands answers as to why he had the affair scare me is that normal?	9/23/2013
	Rick's Q & A Call on October 7, 2013	9/23/2013
	What We Learned at EMS Weekend	9/04/2013
	Rick's Q & A Call on September 23, 2013	8/26/2013
	Rick's Q & A Call on August 26	8/12/2013
	Rick's Q & A Call on August 12	8/05/2013
	Rick's Q & A Call on August 5	7/29/2013
	Rick's Q & A Call on July 29	7/26/2013
	How do you know if you have PTSD and what do you do about it?	7/26/2013
	How do you make restitution after an affair?	7/15/2013
	Rick's Q & A Call on July 22	7/15/2013
	Rick's Q & A Call on July 15	7/08/2013
	Rick's Q & A Call on July 8	7/05/2013
	What factors determine how long it takes to recover? Does the anxiety ever go away?	7/05/2013
	Rekindling Desire After Infidelity	6/26/2013
	Rick's Q & A Call on July 1	6/24/2013
	Rick's Q & A Call on June 24	6/17/2013