Q&A Recovery Library Thousands of questions answered by infidelity expert Rick Reynolds, LCSW and other experts from one trusted source. Gain insights from professionals who not only have specialized in treating infidelity for decades but also have healed from infidelity personally. Must Reads more less The Problem with Forgiveness Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? How to Survive Infidelity Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it The Power of Small Groups Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) 3934 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A How Do I Get over the Fact He Wanted to Walk Out on Us? 1/30/2024 Q&A Given That Addiction Is Part of His Personality with the Alcohol Abuse, Is He Also a Sex Addict? Is There Any Chance He Might Get Better with DBT Therapy? 1/09/2024 Q&A Is It Ok for My Husband to Meet With His Affair Partner? 1/09/2024 Q&A Are My Assumptions about the Affair Partner’s Intentions Reasonable? 1/09/2024 Q&A How Do I Tell My Unfaithful Spouse I Need Access to His Devices to Feel Safe? 1/09/2024 Q&A Could My Husband Be a Sex Addict? 1/09/2024 Q&A Can You Give Me Input on How My Mate Justified Their Actions? 1/09/2024 Q&A How Do I Get past Feeling So Much Time Was Stolen from Me? 1/09/2024 Q&A If a Person Is Taking Medications and Has Gone Thru 6 Rounds of Chemo before Taking a Polygraph, Could This Give a False Reading? 1/09/2024 Q&A How Do I Deal With My Husband’s Anger? 1/09/2024 Q&A Can You Clarify What It Looks Like for Someone to Go into the Pre-contemplative and Contemplative Stage after a Relapse? 1/09/2024 Q&A Does the Wayward Spouse Have a Right to Ask the Betrayed What Source They Are Using to Find Information about the Affair? 11/28/2023 Q&A Can You Help Me Understand Why My Partner Has Never Cried? 11/28/2023 Q&A What Is the Best Way to Keep Boundaries in a Situation Where the Affair Happens in a Tight Knit Community? 11/28/2023 Q&A How Do I Communicate Love, Compassion, and Empathy during the Discovery Process or Questioning? 11/28/2023 Q&A What Traits Should We Look For in an Accountability Partner? 11/28/2023 Q&A Are There Support Groups Specifically for Recovery from Both Infidelity and Alcoholism? 11/28/2023 Q&A What Is My Role in My Husband’s Healing Journey If He Has Been a Serial Cheater for Our Whole Dating & Marriage Relationship? 10/23/2023 Q&A How Do I Create Safety for Myself with an Addict That Is Not Seeking Out Help for Himself? 10/23/2023 Q&A How Do I Deal With My Sexual Addiction When Everything I’ve Tried Isn’t Working? 10/23/2023 Q&A How Can I Help My Mate Understand the Devastation I’m Experiencing Because of Them Giving Me An STD? 10/23/2023 Q&A How Do I Commit to This Marriage When I Promised Myself I’d Never Stay with Someone Who Cheated On Me? 10/23/2023 Q&A Are the Requests I’m Making to Feel Safe Unreasonable? 10/23/2023 Q&A Can You Address Ambivalence on Behalf of the Betrayed Spouse? 10/23/2023 Q&A Is It Reasonable for Me to Feel Unsafe When My Wife Is around the Affair Partner without Me? 10/23/2023 Q&A Is Minimal Contact the Right Thing to Do at This Moment? 9/29/2023 Q&A How Do I Get My Conflict-Avoidant Spouse to Do Anything? 9/29/2023 Q&A How Do I Heal from the Profound Pain Caused by My Unfaithful Spouse Treating Me with Disdain for So Long? 9/29/2023 Q&A Can My Wife Be In Limerence Twice with the Same Man or Is It Love? 9/12/2023 Q&A How Long until My Husband Will Stop Focusing On Himself and Start Showing Up for Me? 9/12/2023 Q&A Do I Have the Right to Know What My Spouse Is Doing to Monitor Me? 9/12/2023 Q&A How Can I Even Buckle Down and Finish EMS Online Knowing That Essentially I Was Discarded? 8/15/2023 Q&A What Would Be Best for His Healing and Our Reconciliation? 8/15/2023 Q&A How Do You Begin to Sift through the Wreckage after an Affair and Determine the Value of What Was Lost? 8/15/2023 Q&A What Is the Best Way to Set Boundaries in the Workplace? 8/15/2023 Q&A Is It Possible to Not Love or Miss Someone after a 3-Year Affair? 8/15/2023 Q&A Are the Boundaries My Mate Has Placed on Our Conversations a Red Flag in Recovery? 8/15/2023 Q&A What If I Question Whether I Want to Be Married or Not? 8/15/2023 Q&A How Do I Show Empathy Towards My Wife after Her Revenge Affair When She Refuses to Give Full Disclosure? 8/15/2023 Q&A At This Point I Just Rather Not Have Sex at All. Is There Something That I Can Do to Change This? 8/15/2023 Q&A Should My Husband Contact the Affair Partner to Break Things off If They Haven’t Had Contact in Almost a Year? 6/29/2023 Q&A Can You Help Me Understand How My Husband Can Be Apathetic toward the Affair Partner? 6/29/2023 Q&A How Do We Navigate Seeing the Emotional Part of the Affair Differently? 6/29/2023 Q&A How Do I Stop the Triggers and Reminders When Every Day They Are There? 6/29/2023 Q&A What Is the Best Way to Acknowledge the Work My Husband Is Doing Without Giving Him Too Much Praise? 6/16/2023 Q&A How Can I Continue to Be Empathetic to Her If in Spite of All I Do, It Is Still Not Enough? 6/16/2023 Q&A Is It Common for Betrayed Spouses to Have Trouble with Depression and Lack of Focus Which Detrimentally Affects Their Work? 6/16/2023 Q&A I Understand the Importance of Not Being Defensive about the Infidelity or Betrayal, but Does That Extend into Every Aspect of Our Lives? 6/16/2023 Q&A Why Would He Go Back to the Same Person He Thinks Is So Nasty? 6/16/2023 Q&A How Do I Handle My Betrayal When the Affair Partner Is So Close with My Husband’s Family? 6/16/2023 Pages« first‹ previous123456789…next ›last »
