Q&A How Much of This Developmental Trauma Contributed to Me Having an Affair in Adulthood? 2/25/2025
Q&A Why Can’t My Husband See the Affair Partner Through a Negative Lens? 2/25/2025
Q&A Does It Matter Who Ended the Affair? 2/25/2025
Q&A Can the Wayward Spouse Really Have No Triggers? 2/18/2025
Q&A Please Help Me Understand What My Reality Is as We Try to Recover from This. 2/11/2025
Q&A Will the Sadness and Intrusive Thoughts Ever Stop? 2/11/2025
Q&A How Do I Tell the Wayward Spouse I Need More Discussion to Heal and Process? 2/11/2025
Q&A How Do We Create Safety When My Husband Had an Emotional Affair with a Coworker for Approximately 7 Years? 2/11/2025
Q&A Is It Possible to Have an Emotional Affair for Many Years and Not Be In Limerence? 2/04/2025
Q&A How Do We Protect Ourselves from an Aggressive and Persistent Affair Partner? 2/04/2025
Q&A Why Has My Spouse Refused to Cut Ties with His High School Sweetheart? 2/04/2025
Q&A Why Would the Wayward Spouse Continue to Lie About Plans with the Affair Partner? 2/04/2025
Q&A Is It Unrealistic to Expect Raw Emotion from My Unfaithful Wife? 2/04/2025
Q&A How Do I Find Closure When the Affair Partner Is a Close Family Friend? 1/14/2025
Q&A What Do You Do If the Wayward Spouse Shows No Remorse, Empathy, or Compassion? 1/14/2025
Q&A How Detailed Should the Disclosure Be for a 7-Year Emotional Affair With a Coworker? 1/08/2025
Q&A Do You Think I Should Reach Out to Affair Partner’s Wife and Disclose the Affair? 1/08/2025
Q&A Is the Connection I Have with My First Love (Not My Husband) Normal? 1/08/2025
Q&A How Important Is Attunement When Recovering from an Affair? 1/08/2025
Q&A How Can I Rebuild Trust When His Words Still Feel Scripted and Devoid of Genuine Empathy? 12/17/2024
Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Our First Wedding Anniversary After Discovery? 12/17/2024
Q&A What If My Husband Doesn’t Want to Change? 12/03/2024
Q&A How Do I Feel Safe Knowing That the Worst Pain I Have Ever Felt Could Possibly Happen Again? 12/03/2024
Q&A Will She Ever Tell the Truth Without Being Backed Into a Corner? 11/26/2024
Q&A How Do I Respond If I Don’t Believe My Spouse? 11/12/2024
Q&A Is My Spouse Trying to Punish Me for What I’ve Done? 11/12/2024
Q&A How Do I Handle My Issue With Disassociation? 11/05/2024
Q&A How Do We Navigate Outside Advice and Establish Boundaries to Protect Our Relationship? 10/30/2024
Q&A Could My Husband’s Actions Be Early Signs of Relapse? 10/30/2024
Q&A How Do I Support My Partner and Accept That I Can’t Control Their Recovery Journey? 10/30/2024
Q&A How Do I Help My Unfaithful Husband as He Seems to Be So Buried in Shame, Self-Loathing, and a Huge Sense of Worthlessness? 10/22/2024
Q&A How Do I Know if It Is Time to Let the Relationship Go? 10/22/2024
Q&A How Do I Come to Terms With My New Reality as a Betrayed Spouse? 10/22/2024
Q&A My Betrayed Partner Says They’re Only in EMS Online So They Can Say ‘They Tried’. What Do I Do? 10/09/2024
Q&A How Do I Heal From the Shame I’m Feeling as a Result of My Affair? 10/09/2024
Q&A Is It Normal for Family to Feel Disappointed at Us for Staying With the Wayward Spouse? 10/01/2024
Q&A Why Does My Husband (Wayward) Not Want to Reconnect With Me (Betrayed) Physically? 10/01/2024
Q&A Am I a Fool for Being Vulnerable With My Mate? 10/01/2024
Q&A How Do I Get the Lying and the Porn Use by My Husband to Stop? 9/18/2024
Q&A How Do I Feel Special Again After I Have Lost So Much Including Places That Were Just Ours? 9/18/2024
Q&A Did My Wife Need to Justify Her Behavior in Cheating on Me? 9/18/2024
Q&A How Do I Replace What I Feel With What I Know, if I Don’t Know What the Truth Is? 9/18/2024
Q&A How Do I Shut Down the Intrusive Thoughts of My Husband With the Affair Partners That Have Become Erotic to Me? 9/18/2024
Q&A What Else Can I Do to Help Facilitate the Healing Process for My Betrayed Spouse and Myself? 9/18/2024
Q&A How Can I Get These Images Out of My Mind and Get back to Just Being With My Husband? 9/18/2024
Q&A How Do I Help My Mate Get back the Dignity and Self-Worth I Took From Her With My Betrayal? 9/18/2024
A Discussion on Anger, Boundaries and Regrets After Infidelity 9/18/2024
Q&A Are We at the End of the Road? 8/20/2024
Q&A How Do I Get Past or Heal From the Hurtful Things My Husband Said About Me to His Affair Partners? 8/20/2024
Q&A Would Viewing Surveillance Footage of My Husband’s Affair Be Helpful? 8/14/2024
