How to Survive Infidelity The discovery of infidelity severely disrupts your life. It is a violation unlike any other. Most experts who deal with infidelity say that the betrayed spouse deals with anywhere from 50 to 100 reminders and triggers per day about their spouse's infidelity. But we have a God who is far bigger than our circumstances. Sections: Must ReadNewsletterFounder's LaptopFree ResourcesHot Off the PressRL_Category: Rebuilding TrustRecovery FundamentalsRelapse PreventionRL_Media Type: TextAA Codes: HurtUnfaithfulSave marriageWhatever it takesJust get over itUncertainFemaleMaleHysterical Hannah / Righteous RickNeedy Nancy / Desperate DannyKnowCybersexAffairsPorn/MasturbationEscorts/Topless clubsFallen in loveAddictionInappropriate relSexualNon-sexualAdventurous Annie / Careless KentRegretful Rita / Miserable MikeNeglected NicoleSmitten Samantha / Lovestruck LarryCompulsive Kate / Slick WillieYes want to know Add New Comment: Comments I find no comfort in knowing Submitted by Seenthelight (not verified) on Wed, 03/06/2024 - 14:27 I find no comfort in knowing there are so many cheaters every where. It emphasizes just how low the human race has sunk. So many with such lack of self control and morals. No integrity (doing what’s right regardless of who is watching). No concern for a spouse or significant other they have/are cheating on rather than at least being honest with them, yet stay with the betrayed making their life a lie too. I know I would have appreciated the truth at the very least. Leaving my ex was the best thing I have ever done since knowing him. reply Struggling to recover from infidelity two years back Submitted by Patience on Thu, 03/07/2024 - 01:44 My husband does not want to admit and ask for forgiveness, he still maintains he has never had the affair even though there is proof of a recording. Someone I know volunteered to find out for me from the woman my husband had an affair with. The woman revealed everything about the affair to this person not seeing that the person was recording her. My husband still denies everything the woman said, I asked him how does she know all the things she's speaking about if he did not tell her. When his brother's son passed on, he called her and told her the machines have been removed where as I did not know as I heard from our daughter who was informed by her aunt. He lied about me to this woman that he found me with a man in our house drinking coffee and he just looked and went home. He is staying at his late mom's house since 2009, he came back to our house but then things didn't go well as our daughters were not obedient to him and that was the time he went back. We still married but living separately, he comes to visit and then I will go there during weekends. He lives with our last born daughter who is 21 years and so rude to me. Our daughter stayed with him when she was finishing school in 2019. The following year she went to varsity but she never completed her degree as she dropped out. Whenever we are intimate with the father she would come to knock and ask for something in the father's room. I really don't know what to do, as he can't discipline our daughter. Please help me with why he is denying the affair and is he still seeing this woman as she stays a street behind him and I stay far away. Thank you Patience reply