For The Hurt Spouse

There are many aspects in the recovery of the betrayed spouse that will look very different from the unfaithful spouse. These articles are written specifically for healing and to provide hope and encouragement for the hurt spouse.

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Audio icon Q&A Am I Over the Top for Feeling this Way?
Audio icon Q&A How Can I Calm the Hauntings?
Audio icon Q&A How Can I Enjoy an Activity with my Spouse When he did it With his Affair Partner?
Audio icon Q&A Is it Common for Unfaithful to Confess Affair but Continue Lying?
Audio icon Q&A If my Husband Affaired down, did his Affair Partner?
Audio icon Q&A Limerance and Male Compartmentalization
Audio icon Q&A My Husband Refuses to get Help and Give me Disclosure
Audio icon Q&A What Can I do to Create Empathy Between me and my Spouse?
Audio icon Q&A Why is the Unfaithful Blessed While the Betrayed Loses it All?
Audio icon Q&A How can I get my Spouse to let me Heal?
Audio icon Q&A Timelines for Intense Pain and Forgiveness, How Long Does it Take?
Audio icon Q&A Do I Run or Reconcile?
Audio icon Q&A Trouble Agreeing on Who to Tell, now What?
Audio icon Q&A How do I Accept This as my Life?
Audio icon Q&A How can a Betrayed Spouse Become Unfaithful?
Audio icon Q&A Which Course Should my Spouse Take?
Audio icon Q&A My Husband Continuously "Forgets"
Audio icon Q&A How Do I Know if my Spouse is Really Changing or just Pretending?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Get Past the Fear of the Future?
Video icon Q&A What's the Difference Between a Boundary and an Ultimatum?
Video icon Q&A How do I Know if I've Forgiven my Husband?
Video icon Q&A Can a Narcissist Change?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Get Past the Length of my Husband's Affair?
Video icon Q&A When Will This Nightmare End?!
Video icon Q&A What do I do With Righteous Indignation?
Video icon Q&A What do I do Since my Unfaithful Spouse Will Not be Honest?
Audio icon Q&A My Husband's Affair Partner is Blackmailing Us. What do we do?
Audio icon Q&A How do you Respond to Righteous Indignation?
Audio icon Q&A I Discovered my Husband's Affair After He Passed Away. How do I Heal?
Video icon Q&A Is There Danger in Asking my Unfaithful Spouse About His Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A Is There a Step by Step Guide on How to Forgive a Betrayal Such as Mine?
Video icon Q&A What is the Best Way to Disclose my Wife's Affair to Our Kid's?
Audio icon Q&A Caught Unfaithful Spouse in the Act
Audio icon Q&A Consumed With Finding Information
Audio icon Q&A Should I Write a Letter to the Affair Partner?
Audio icon Q&A Spouse Avoiding Issue and Anger Management
Video icon Q&A My Husband is Having Urges
Video icon Q&A Unfaithful Spouse Continues Contact with Affair Partner: When is Enough, Enough?
Audio icon Q&A My Unfaithful Spouse Wants me to Forgive and Forget
Audio icon Q&A Intrusive Thoughts Preventing Rest
Audio icon Q&A Addiction and Limerance
Audio icon Q&A Emotional Affair and Limerance
Audio icon Q&A Hurt Spouse Contacting the Affair Partner
Audio icon Q&A Intrusive Thoughts and Triggers
Text icon Using the Time Well: Try the First Steps Bootcamp
Text icon I Only Have Eyes for You
Text icon The Seduction of Blame
Text icon How to Not Make Things Worse: Community Poll
Text icon I Want My Life Back
Video icon What We Learned at EMS Weekend