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Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery 3938 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A How Do I Explain Disassociation and It’s Part in the Affair? 1/26/2023 Q&A How Do I Handle My Husband’s Enjoyment of Porn? 1/26/2023 Q&A Does This Type of Repeated Behavior Indicate an Addiction or Wanting Both the Marriage and the Affair, or Both? 1/26/2023 Q&A How Do I Help My Husband Understand the Effects of Trauma While Also Letting Him See That It Is Not an Excuse for My Actions? 1/11/2023 Q&A What Kind of Affair Is This? 1/11/2023 Q&A How Do I Explain That My Childhood Trauma Triggered My Actions and Doesn’t Remove My Accountability Even If I Did Disassociate? 1/11/2023 Q&A Will My Children Lose Respect for Me If I Reconcile? 1/11/2023 Q&A How Do I Handle My Mate Weaponizing Information That I’m Sharing with Them? 1/11/2023 Q&A What Can I Do, as the Betrayed, to Try and Get Closure? 1/11/2023 Q&A How Do You Handle Having OCD and a Sexual Addiction at the Same Time? 1/11/2023 Q&A Are My Boundaries for My Spouse Unreasonable? 1/11/2023 Q&A What Is a Realistic Timeline for My Own Recovery with C-PTSD and Childhood Trauma and Being Able to Answer Every Specifically Detailed ‘Why'? 1/11/2023 Q&A How Can He Have No Feelings for the Affair Partner or Not Remember How He Expressed Feelings for Her? 1/11/2023 Q&A Am I Wrong to Feel Suspicious or Am I Jumping to Conclusions? 12/06/2022 Q&A Does My Wayward Spouse Need Closure with Their Affair Partner? 12/06/2022 Q&A Is It Productive to Healing and Reconciliation for the Unfaithful to Withhold Sex? 12/06/2022 Q&A How Can I Trust My Mate Who Won’t Be Open with Me? 12/06/2022 Q&A Do I Keep It to Myself When I Get Triggered? 12/06/2022 Q&A How Can We Get Anywhere If a Calm Conversation Can’t Happen about His Recovery or Betrayals? 12/06/2022 Q&A Does a More Regular Use of Porn Increase the Likelihood of Cheating? 12/06/2022 Q&A If He Was Having an Affair to Get Some Sort of Thrill or Feeling from That Person Why Did He Constantly Want My Attention Too? 12/06/2022 Q&A How Important Is It to Interrupt Intrusive Thoughts within 3 Seconds? 12/06/2022 Q&A How Can You Connect during a Structured In-House Separation? 12/06/2022 Q&A How Can My Spouse Work with the Affair Partner and Still Be Okay? 12/06/2022 Q&A How Do I Get over All of the Pain That I Have Caused? 12/06/2022 Q&A Can You Help Us to Understand in What Ways a Long-Term Affair with a Toxic Affair Partner Effect the Recovery Process? 12/06/2022 Q&A Is It Possible for Someone to Quit Porn Cold Turkey? 12/06/2022 Q&A Do You Think He Truly Meant What He Said While Also Calling Me Beautiful on a Regular Basis? 12/06/2022 Q&A Why Would You Have a Group of People Trying to Recover from Infidelity Being Led by a Single Female Who Is Divorced? 12/06/2022 Q&A Can You Explain More on Pimping Tenderness? 11/03/2022 Q&A Are These Reoccurring Mental Images of Porn Normal? 11/03/2022 Q&A Is Attraction Actually Objectification? 11/03/2022 Q&A Is There Hope for My Husband in Recovery? 11/03/2022 Q&A Any Advice on How, When & Where It’s Best to Share Our Story? 11/03/2022 Q&A What Do I Do If I Don’t Believe My Mate Has Been Completely Honest with Their Full Disclosure? 10/13/2022 Q&A Are My Kids Really ‘Love Children’ from My Affairs? 10/13/2022 Q&A How Can the Unfaithful Work through the Deception Regarding the Infidelity? 10/13/2022 Q&A What Kind of Professional Help Should I Seek? 10/13/2022 Q&A How Can I Help My Husband Believe I’m Not Manipulating Him? 10/13/2022 Q&A Will I Be Able to Find My Wife Sexually Attractive Again or Have I Broken My Brain? 10/13/2022 Q&A Am I Struggling Because I Still Feel Unsafe in Recovery? 10/13/2022 Q&A Is Listening to Audiobooks That Are Sexually Explicit Considered Porn? 9/13/2022 Q&A How Can an Unfaithful Spouse Develop Emotional Intelligence? 9/13/2022 Q&A What Can We Do Differently? 9/13/2022 Q&A How Do We Move Forward When I’m Not Sure He Can Admit to Himself What His Demons Are? 8/26/2022 Q&A Is It Possible for Spouses to Have Emotional Affairs With Same Sex Best Friends? 8/26/2022 Q&A Is This an Appropriate Deal-Breaker? 8/26/2022 Q&A How Do We Heal from Sexual Abuse in Our Marriage? 8/26/2022 Q&A How Do I Not Feel So Bad About My Own Body? 8/03/2022 Q&A Is It Strange for the Unfaithful to Have Depression? 8/03/2022 Pages« first‹ previous…2345678910…next ›last »