All Categories After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need. Must Reads more less Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Rebuilding Trust After An Affair The Power of Small Groups Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity The Problem with Forgiveness Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors How to Survive Infidelity 4996 Resources Type Title Posted My husband and I disagree over his feelings for his AP, I think he was in love which he denies, how do we arrive at seeing it the same way? 6/19/2012 Pain Not Transformed Is Transmitted: Healing After An Affair 6/06/2012 Rick's Q & A Call on June 25 5/22/2012 Guide for testimonial 5/17/2012 Rick's Q & A Call on May 21 5/16/2012 My husband didn't give full disclosure 2 years ago at EMS and I just discoverd there was another affair, I'm back at ground zero, how can I heal from his deception? 5/16/2012 My mate's AP is still involved in our circle of friends, how do we inform our friends we no longer want to be included in activities involving the other woman? 5/16/2012 I lied to my friends about my husband leading them to beleive he was abusive to justify my infidelty, how do I make amends and help heal those relationships? 5/16/2012 I turned my family against my husband during my affair, do you have any suggestions of what I can do to heal those relationships? 5/16/2012 Financial Infidelity: 6 Tips to Fix It 5/11/2012 How long does it take for remiders to go away and for my mate's temptation to subside? 5/08/2012 My husband is a sex addict, how can we develop and maintain a healthy sexual relationship? 5/08/2012 My wife says she still loves her AP is that normal and is she really comitted to the marriage? 5/08/2012 Rick's Q & A Call on May 14 5/08/2012 How To Handle Pain: Healing After An Affair 4/26/2012 Rick's Q & A call on May 7 4/23/2012 We attended the AR program two years ago and have been doing really well until last week when my wife discovered that I didn't give her full disclosure, any suggestions? 4/23/2012 My mate has lapse behaviors and I'm having problems trusting him any suggestions? 4/16/2012 Rick's Q & A call on April 23 4/16/2012 My husband is angry, mean and withdrawn since he got caught. Any book or music suggestions? 4/16/2012 We feel we need to explain to our friends in our small group what's going on since he had an affair with one of the other couples and we're avoiding them, do you have any suggestions? 4/06/2012 My husband has been dealing with a sexual addiction, over the past two years the frequency of our love making as declined, why is that? 4/06/2012 Rick's Q & A on April 16 4/06/2012 Why is my husband Jealous of me if he's the one who cheated? 4/06/2012 Will EMS help us move forward or will it cause us to fall back into old destructive feelings? 4/06/2012 6 Steps To Confronting Your Mate About Betrayal 4/03/2012 Rick's Q & A on April 2 3/26/2012 Does the fact that I'm a sex addict automatically make me a co-sex-addict? 3/26/2012 It's been 4 months since d-day and my wife is beeing taunted by my AP which is making her angry with me, how should I respond? 3/26/2012 We're nine months into recovery and my mate has slipped and been inconsistent with SAA and therapy, should I tell our kids what's going on? 3/26/2012 Social Media, Emotional Affairs & Infidelity 3/22/2012 Rick's Q & A call on March 26 3/19/2012 If my husband didn't tell me everything at discovery does that make our last 4 years a lie? 3/19/2012 If my husband has been unfaithful for the past 9 years can we change? Have I been married to a single man for the past 9 years and is there anything worth salvaging in our marriage? 3/19/2012 Is it okay to share my opinions with my mate regarding the root of their problem? 3/19/2012 Surviving Infidelity: Finding the Root Problem And How To Heal 3/14/2012 Rick's Q & A call on March 12 3/05/2012 Rick's Q & A call on March 5 2/24/2012 It's been a year since discovery and I'm still confused, we don't seem as close, should I give up if I'm still not sure what to do? 2/24/2012 How do I take care of myself and my little ones as our family breaks apart? How do I heal when my husband wont do what it takes? 2/24/2012 Survey results for Valentine’s Day: Surviving Infidelity & Surviving Valentine’s Day 2/14/2012 Rick's Q & A Call on February 27 2/13/2012 The Valentine's Day After Syndrome and Survey Results 2/13/2012 Welcome to the Recovery Library 2/02/2012 It's been 10 months since discovery and we're doing well, is it too early to both recommit to our marriage? 1/31/2012 My AP continues to text me, I've told my spouse and neither of us have responded, what should we do? 1/31/2012 My huband has put constraints on when I can ask questions and he won't accept respoinsiblity for his actions, what can I do? 1/31/2012 My husband is a sex addict and now when I go out in public I'm so distrurbed by seeing women I think he might be attracted to I break down in tears, what can I do? 1/31/2012 I found the chapter on reminders to be helpful, but need help with how to counter my intrusive thoughts with the truth, any suggestions? 1/31/2012 My wife is lying about contact with her AP and is planning on meeting him, should I continure having sex with her and continue with trying to be what she wants? 1/31/2012 Pages« first‹ previous…888990919293949596…next ›last »
