Q&A Recovery Library

Thousands of questions answered by infidelity expert Rick Reynolds, LCSW and other experts from one trusted source. Gain insights from professionals who not only have specialized in treating infidelity for decades but also have healed from infidelity personally.
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Video icon Q&A Do We Tell My Wife Parents About Her Behavior in Their House?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Get over Feeling Disgust With My Partner Over Who He Chose to Have an Affair With?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Truly Know if My Wayward Spouse Has Changed?
Video icon Q&A What Do I Do When My Wayward Spouse Refuses to Meet My Emotional Needs?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Better Understand the Behaviors of My Wayward Spouse?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Get My Wife to Understand That Abuse Towards Men Is Equal to Abuse Towards Women?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Help My Wayward Spouse Heal From Betrayal Trauma From a Prior Relationship?
Video icon Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Polygraphs, Anxiety Induced False Positives, and Full Disclosure During Recovery?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Believe My Mate When They Say the Affair Is Over?
Video icon Q&A If We Move, Would We Be Running From Our Problems or Could It Help Our Recovery?
Video icon Q&A As the Betrayed, Should I Focus on Avoiding the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A Do I Have to Take a Polygraph?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Get My Mate to Quit Using ‘Absolutes'?
Video icon Q&A Should I Risk Provoking My Affair Partner if It Makes My Mate Feel Better?
Video icon Q&A How Can We Reconnect if I Don’t Know What Happened?
Video icon Q&A Am I Asking for Too Much Control or Is the Wayward Spouse Being Unreasonable With a Lack of Boundaries?
Video icon Q&A Do I Need to Allow the Wayward Spouse to Have More Time in the Recovery Process?
Video icon Q&A What Should We Look for in a Therapist to Ensure They Can Provide the Specialized Support Needed for Infidelity Recovery?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Reconnect Intimately With My Betrayed Husband Now Knowing That He Is Dealing with His Own Temptations?
Video icon Q&A Can You Please Address the Problem of Grieving Memories Like Childbirth Under the Shadow of an Affair?
Video icon Q&A Is It Advisable to Leave This Church and Find Another Church Home to Help With Restoration and Recovery?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Stop the Comparisons, Build Confidence, and Get Better at Sex Without Feeling Like I’m Trying to Be Like the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A What Is the Best Way to Build Trust Around My Husband’s Actions and My Triggers?
Video icon Q&A Is It Okay for the Unfaithful to Masturbate While I, the Betrayed, Can’t Be Intimate Right Now Because of Lack of Emotional Connection and a Lot of Hurt?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Respond When the Betrayed Ridicules, Shames, and Slanders Me for What I Have Done?
Video icon Q&A Will I Ever Accept His Reasons for the Affairs?
Video icon Q&A Could You Give a Tangible Example of the Statement, ‘My Mate Is Never My Problem. My Mate Only Reveals the Problem in Me’?
Video icon Q&A How Is It Helpful to Label Someone for the Rest of Their Life When They Have Changed Directions?
Video icon Q&A Does My Mate Still Have Feelings for His Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Know When My Husband is Safe Again?
Video icon Q&A How Do You Walk Your Heart Through Acceptance?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Address Her Readiness to Engage With Someone So Despicable Versus Her Resistance to Reconnect Intimately With Me?
Video icon Q&A How Much Does Alcohol Play a Factor in a One Night Stand?
Video icon Q&A What Do You Recommend for Support for Those Going through the Lonely and Brutal Unique Situation of a Divorce Post Affair?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Cope With the Resurgence of Past Traumas Triggered by Such Betrayal?
Video icon Q&A Every Time I Start to Feel Better, My Unfaithful Spouse Stops Putting in as Much Effort. How Can I Feel Safe When This Happens?
Video icon Q&A How Do You Stop Thinking About and Forgive The Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Do Everything Right at Every Moment for My Wife?
Video icon Q&A How Do We Know if Our Cheating Spouse Is a Sex Addict, Has a Personality Disorder, or if It Is Something Else?
Video icon Q&A How Do We Recover the Large Sum of Money the Affair Partner Borrowed From My Husband?
Video icon Q&A Where Can I Find Help for My Mate’s Cognitive Issues Surrounding the Lessons and My Grief?
Video icon Q&A Should My Husband Keep His Mother in His Life Given That She Actively Facilitated and Supported His Actions?
Video icon Q&A How Do You Move Past Regret Into Acceptance?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Be More Help to My Wayward Spouse Like He Has Been for Me?
Video icon Q&A How Can We Overcome Arousal Issues Resulting From Disclosure?
Video icon Q&A How Can One Move Forward Knowing and Feeling Like This?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Deal with My Unfaithful Spouse’s Inability to Self-Reflect?
Video icon Q&A Why Does My Husband Continue to Lie When I’ve Been a Safe Place for Him Since I Returned?
Video icon Q&A Why Should I Stay With My Current Wife When I Really Want to Be With My Ex-Wife?
Video icon Q&A How Does Betrayal Affect Pregnancy and the Well-Being of the Unborn Child?