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Video Q&A If He Was Having an Affair to Get Some Sort of Thrill or Feeling from That Person Why Did He Constantly Want My Attention Too? 12/06/2022
Video Q&A How Important Is It to Interrupt Intrusive Thoughts within 3 Seconds? 12/06/2022
Video Q&A How Can You Connect during a Structured In-House Separation? 12/06/2022
Video Q&A How Can My Spouse Work with the Affair Partner and Still Be Okay? 12/06/2022
Video Q&A How Do I Get over All of the Pain That I Have Caused? 12/06/2022
Video Q&A Can You Help Us to Understand in What Ways a Long-Term Affair with a Toxic Affair Partner Effect the Recovery Process? 12/06/2022
Video Q&A Is It Possible for Someone to Quit Porn Cold Turkey? 12/06/2022
Video Q&A Do You Think He Truly Meant What He Said While Also Calling Me Beautiful on a Regular Basis? 12/06/2022
Video Q&A Why Would You Have a Group of People Trying to Recover from Infidelity Being Led by a Single Female Who Is Divorced? 12/06/2022
Text Pleasing Versus Loving 11/29/2022
Text Healing After the Affair: Whether or Not to Get Help 11/23/2022
Text How to survive an affair – How much should I share with my spouse? 11/15/2022
Text Handling Disappointment After Infidelity 11/08/2022
Video Q&A Can You Explain More on Pimping Tenderness? 11/03/2022
Video Q&A Are These Reoccurring Mental Images of Porn Normal? 11/03/2022
Video Q&A Is Attraction Actually Objectification? 11/03/2022
Video Q&A Is There Hope for My Husband in Recovery? 11/03/2022
Video Q&A Any Advice on How, When & Where It’s Best to Share Our Story? 11/03/2022
Text The Mystery of Change 11/02/2022
Text Is Change Really Possible? 10/26/2022
Text Am I Who They Want? 10/19/2022
Video Q&A What Do I Do If I Don’t Believe My Mate Has Been Completely Honest with Their Full Disclosure? 10/13/2022
Video Q&A Are My Kids Really ‘Love Children’ from My Affairs? 10/13/2022
Video Q&A How Can the Unfaithful Work through the Deception Regarding the Infidelity? 10/13/2022
Video Q&A What Kind of Professional Help Should I Seek? 10/13/2022
Video Q&A How Can I Help My Husband Believe I’m Not Manipulating Him? 10/13/2022
Video Q&A Will I Be Able to Find My Wife Sexually Attractive Again or Have I Broken My Brain? 10/13/2022
Video Q&A Am I Struggling Because I Still Feel Unsafe in Recovery? 10/13/2022
Text Were They Thinking of Me? 10/12/2022
Text The Proper Use of Boundaries - Creating Space for Healing and Change 10/05/2022
Text Anger: Its 6 Roots 9/28/2022
Text Lies We Believe About Our Spouse 9/21/2022
Text The True Definition of Love and Its Role In Surviving An Affair 9/14/2022
Video Q&A Is Listening to Audiobooks That Are Sexually Explicit Considered Porn? 9/13/2022
Video Q&A How Can an Unfaithful Spouse Develop Emotional Intelligence? 9/13/2022
Video Q&A What Can We Do Differently? 9/13/2022
Text Surviving Infidelity: Three Types of Reconciliation 9/07/2022
Text Nine Signs of an Emotional Affair 8/31/2022
Video Q&A How Do We Move Forward When I’m Not Sure He Can Admit to Himself What His Demons Are? 8/26/2022
Video Q&A Is It Possible for Spouses to Have Emotional Affairs With Same Sex Best Friends? 8/26/2022
Video Q&A Is This an Appropriate Deal-Breaker? 8/26/2022
Video Q&A How Do We Heal from Sexual Abuse in Our Marriage? 8/26/2022
Text The Fantasyland of an Affair 8/24/2022
Text Intrusive Thoughts After the Affair: How to Manage Flooding 8/17/2022
Text Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? 8/10/2022
Video Q&A How Do I Not Feel So Bad About My Own Body? 8/03/2022
Video Q&A Is It Strange for the Unfaithful to Have Depression? 8/03/2022
Video Q&A Is This a Healthy Way to Process My Anger? 8/03/2022
Video Q&A How Do I Deal With My Repulsion by the Idea of Sex Post Betrayal? 8/03/2022
Video Q&A How Long Are You Suppose to Wait for Unfaithful to Take Responsibility and Have Empathy? 8/03/2022

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