All Categories After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need. Must Reads more less Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 The Power of Small Groups Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair The Problem with Forgiveness How to Survive Infidelity 4821 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A If He Was Having an Affair to Get Some Sort of Thrill or Feeling from That Person Why Did He Constantly Want My Attention Too? 12/06/2022 Q&A How Important Is It to Interrupt Intrusive Thoughts within 3 Seconds? 12/06/2022 Q&A How Can You Connect during a Structured In-House Separation? 12/06/2022 Q&A How Can My Spouse Work with the Affair Partner and Still Be Okay? 12/06/2022 Q&A How Do I Get over All of the Pain That I Have Caused? 12/06/2022 Q&A Can You Help Us to Understand in What Ways a Long-Term Affair with a Toxic Affair Partner Effect the Recovery Process? 12/06/2022 Q&A Is It Possible for Someone to Quit Porn Cold Turkey? 12/06/2022 Q&A Do You Think He Truly Meant What He Said While Also Calling Me Beautiful on a Regular Basis? 12/06/2022 Q&A Why Would You Have a Group of People Trying to Recover from Infidelity Being Led by a Single Female Who Is Divorced? 12/06/2022 Pleasing Versus Loving 11/29/2022 Healing After the Affair: Whether or Not to Get Help 11/23/2022 How to survive an affair – How much should I share with my spouse? 11/15/2022 Handling Disappointment After Infidelity 11/08/2022 Q&A Can You Explain More on Pimping Tenderness? 11/03/2022 Q&A Are These Reoccurring Mental Images of Porn Normal? 11/03/2022 Q&A Is Attraction Actually Objectification? 11/03/2022 Q&A Is There Hope for My Husband in Recovery? 11/03/2022 Q&A Any Advice on How, When & Where It’s Best to Share Our Story? 11/03/2022 The Mystery of Change 11/02/2022 Is Change Really Possible? 10/26/2022 Am I Who They Want? 10/19/2022 Q&A What Do I Do If I Don’t Believe My Mate Has Been Completely Honest with Their Full Disclosure? 10/13/2022 Q&A Are My Kids Really ‘Love Children’ from My Affairs? 10/13/2022 Q&A How Can the Unfaithful Work through the Deception Regarding the Infidelity? 10/13/2022 Q&A What Kind of Professional Help Should I Seek? 10/13/2022 Q&A How Can I Help My Husband Believe I’m Not Manipulating Him? 10/13/2022 Q&A Will I Be Able to Find My Wife Sexually Attractive Again or Have I Broken My Brain? 10/13/2022 Q&A Am I Struggling Because I Still Feel Unsafe in Recovery? 10/13/2022 Were They Thinking of Me? 10/12/2022 The Proper Use of Boundaries - Creating Space for Healing and Change 10/05/2022 Anger: Its 6 Roots 9/28/2022 Lies We Believe About Our Spouse 9/21/2022 The True Definition of Love and Its Role In Surviving An Affair 9/14/2022 Q&A Is Listening to Audiobooks That Are Sexually Explicit Considered Porn? 9/13/2022 Q&A How Can an Unfaithful Spouse Develop Emotional Intelligence? 9/13/2022 Q&A What Can We Do Differently? 9/13/2022 Surviving Infidelity: Three Types of Reconciliation 9/07/2022 Nine Signs of an Emotional Affair 8/31/2022 Q&A How Do We Move Forward When I’m Not Sure He Can Admit to Himself What His Demons Are? 8/26/2022 Q&A Is It Possible for Spouses to Have Emotional Affairs With Same Sex Best Friends? 8/26/2022 Q&A Is This an Appropriate Deal-Breaker? 8/26/2022 Q&A How Do We Heal from Sexual Abuse in Our Marriage? 8/26/2022 The Fantasyland of an Affair 8/24/2022 Intrusive Thoughts After the Affair: How to Manage Flooding 8/17/2022 Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? 8/10/2022 Q&A How Do I Not Feel So Bad About My Own Body? 8/03/2022 Q&A Is It Strange for the Unfaithful to Have Depression? 8/03/2022 Q&A Is This a Healthy Way to Process My Anger? 8/03/2022 Q&A How Do I Deal With My Repulsion by the Idea of Sex Post Betrayal? 8/03/2022 Q&A How Long Are You Suppose to Wait for Unfaithful to Take Responsibility and Have Empathy? 8/03/2022 Pages« first‹ previous123456789…next ›last »