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4592 Resources

Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A When is it Healthy to Stop Talking About the Affair?	12/10/2014
	Q&A My Husband Continuously "Forgets"	12/10/2014
	Q&A How Do I Know if my Spouse is Really Changing or just Pretending?	12/10/2014
	Q&A How Can I Get Past the Fear of the Future?	12/05/2014
	Q&A What's the Difference Between a Boundary and an Ultimatum?	12/05/2014
	Q&A Should I Share my Temptations and/or Failings with my Spouse?	12/01/2014
	Q&A How do I Know if I've Forgiven my Husband?	11/24/2014
	Q&A Can a Narcissist Change?	11/24/2014
	Q&A How do I Handle my Spouse's Affair Partner Having Explicit Photos of my Spouse?	11/24/2014
	Q&A How Can I Get Past the Length of my Husband's Affair?	11/24/2014
	Q&A When Will This Nightmare End?!	11/24/2014
	Q&A What do I do With Righteous Indignation?	11/24/2014
	Q&A What do I do Since my Unfaithful Spouse Will Not be Honest?	11/24/2014
	Q&A My Husband's Affair Partner is Blackmailing Us. What do we do?	11/20/2014
	Q&A How do you Respond to Righteous Indignation?	11/20/2014
	Q&A I Discovered my Husband's Affair After He Passed Away. How do I Heal?	11/20/2014
	Q&A When Will my Unfaithful Spouse Gain Clarity on his Behaviors?	11/20/2014
	Q&A When do You Stop Talking About the Affair?	11/17/2014
	Q&A Should I Apologize to my Spouse's Family for my Affair?	11/14/2014
	Q&A Is There Danger in Asking my Unfaithful Spouse About His Affair Partner?	11/14/2014
	Q&A Is There a Step by Step Guide on How to Forgive a Betrayal Such as Mine?	11/14/2014
	Q&A What is the Best Way to Disclose my Wife's Affair to Our Kid's?	11/14/2014
	Q&A Caught Unfaithful Spouse in the Act	11/12/2014
	Q&A Consumed With Finding Information	11/12/2014
	Q&A Should I Write a Letter to the Affair Partner?	11/12/2014
	Q&A Spouse Avoiding Issue and Anger Management	11/12/2014
	Q&A My Husband is Having Urges	11/05/2014
	Q&A Unfaithful Spouse Continues Contact with Affair Partner: When is Enough, Enough?	11/05/2014
	Q&A Addiction, Meetings, & Lack of Commitment	11/05/2014
	Q&A My Unfaithful Spouse Wants me to Forgive and Forget	11/04/2014
	Q&A Intrusive Thoughts Preventing Rest	11/04/2014
	Q&A Addiction and Limerance	11/04/2014
	Q&A Emotional Affair and Limerance	11/04/2014
	Q&A Hurt Spouse Contacting the Affair Partner	11/04/2014
	Q&A Intrusive Thoughts and Triggers	11/04/2014
	Surviving Infidelity: Poor Recovery Decisions of Unfaithful Spouses - Part 2	10/23/2014
	Rick's Q & A Call on October 20, 2014	10/06/2014
	Rick's Q & A Call on October 6, 2014	9/29/2014
	Rick's Q & A Call on September 29, 2014	9/22/2014
	Using the Time Well: Try the First Steps Bootcamp	9/17/2014
	Rick's Q & A Call on September 22, 2014	9/15/2014
	Rick's Q & A Call on September 15, 2014	8/25/2014
	I Only Have Eyes for You	8/19/2014
	Rick's Q & A Call on August 25, 2014	8/18/2014
	Rick's Q & A Call on August 18, 2014	8/11/2014
	Rick's Q & A Call on August 11, 2014	8/04/2014
	Rick's Q & A Call on August 4, 2014	7/28/2014
	Rick's Q & A Call on July 28, 2014	7/21/2014
	Rick's Q & A Call on July 21, 2014	7/14/2014
	Rick's Q & A Call on July 14, 2014	7/07/2014