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Type	Title	Posted
	Understanding the Phases of Recovery: Is this normal?	10/12/2026
	Infidelity + Life: When the Affair Isn’t Your Only Crisis	9/28/2026
	Reclaiming Your Power Through Intervention	9/16/2026
	How to Forgive When You Can't Forget	9/14/2026
	His Addiction, Her Affair: Healing When Both Are Betrayed	8/31/2026

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Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A Is Looking at Porn as Damaging as Having an Affair?	9/29/2026
	Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Celebrating Our Anniversary During Recovery?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Do We Respond to Intrusive Thoughts Without Reinforcing Them?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Do I Respond to Old Urges & Pathways Without Becoming Overly Vigilant?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Can I Support My Betrayed Spouse?	9/29/2026

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4630 Resources

Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A How Can I Stop Thinking About HIS Affair Partner?	1/06/2015
	Q&A Do We Need Marriage as a Foundation?	1/06/2015
	Q&A (HFH) How do I Stop Thinking About my Affair Partner?	1/06/2015
	Q&A (HFH) I Want to Contact my Affair Partner. How do I Stop Myself?	1/06/2015
	Q&A Should I Allow my Husband to Move Back in?	1/06/2015
	Q&A Can we Recover Without Romanticism?	12/19/2014
	Q&A My Husband was Unfaithful for 10 Years. How can he Love me?	12/19/2014
	Q&A How can he Love me and Love her?	12/19/2014
	Q&A How do I Get Away From Pretend Normal?	12/19/2014
	Q&A How do I Transition from being Married to being Single with a Child?	12/19/2014
	Q&A My Husband Isn't Taking Action. Should I Leave?	12/19/2014
	Q&A How do I Deal With my Anger and Emotions?	12/16/2014
	Q&A How can I Stop the Images from Popping up in my Mind?	12/16/2014
	Q&A How Can I Show my Husband he is a Sex Addict?	12/16/2014
	Q&A Can I Heal Without Full Disclosure?	12/16/2014
	Q&A How far do I Push for the Truth?	12/16/2014
	Q&A Is Pornography Okay for Spouses to Watch Together?	12/16/2014
	Q&A When will my Husband Understand his Feelings so that I can Feel Safe?	12/15/2014
	Q&A What is the Difference Between being Angry and Assertive?	12/15/2014
	Q&A Will the Repulsion go Away?	12/15/2014
	Q&A Can I Recover Without Details?	12/15/2014
	Q&A Am I Crazy, or is my Husband Telling the Truth?	12/11/2014
	Q&A Am I Over the Top for Feeling this Way?	12/11/2014
	Q&A How Can I Calm the Hauntings?	12/11/2014
	Q&A How Can I Enjoy an Activity with my Spouse When he did it With his Affair Partner?	12/11/2014
	Q&A Is it Common for Unfaithful to Confess Affair but Continue Lying?	12/11/2014
	Q&A If my Husband Affaired down, did his Affair Partner?	12/11/2014
	Q&A Limerance and Male Compartmentalization	12/11/2014
	Q&A My Husband Refuses to get Help and Give me Disclosure	12/11/2014
	Q&A What Can I do to Create Empathy Between me and my Spouse?	12/11/2014
	Q&A Why is the Unfaithful Blessed While the Betrayed Loses it All?	12/11/2014
	Q&A How can I get my Spouse to let me Heal?	12/10/2014
	Q&A Timelines for Intense Pain and Forgiveness, How Long Does it Take?	12/10/2014
	Q&A Do I Run or Reconcile?	12/10/2014
	Q&A Trouble Agreeing on Who to Tell, now What?	12/10/2014
	Q&A How do I Accept This as my Life?	12/10/2014
	Q&A How can a Betrayed Spouse Become Unfaithful?	12/10/2014
	Q&A Which Course Should my Spouse Take?	12/10/2014
	Q&A When is it Healthy to Stop Talking About the Affair?	12/10/2014
	Q&A My Husband Continuously "Forgets"	12/10/2014
	Q&A How Do I Know if my Spouse is Really Changing or just Pretending?	12/10/2014
	Q&A How Can I Get Past the Fear of the Future?	12/05/2014
	Q&A What's the Difference Between a Boundary and an Ultimatum?	12/05/2014
	Q&A Should I Share my Temptations and/or Failings with my Spouse?	12/01/2014
	Q&A How do I Know if I've Forgiven my Husband?	11/24/2014
	Q&A Can a Narcissist Change?	11/24/2014
	Q&A How do I Handle my Spouse's Affair Partner Having Explicit Photos of my Spouse?	11/24/2014
	Q&A How Can I Get Past the Length of my Husband's Affair?	11/24/2014
	Q&A When Will This Nightmare End?!	11/24/2014
	Q&A What do I do With Righteous Indignation?	11/24/2014