How to Forgive Everyone’s recovery looks different, but one consistent factor that must occur is forgiveness. Read the articles in this section to understand the process of forgiveness and to find tools for moving forward. Must Reads more less The Problem with Forgiveness Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair How to Survive Infidelity The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse The Power of Small Groups Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened 164 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A Am I Over the Top for Feeling this Way? 12/11/2014 Q&A How Can I Enjoy an Activity with my Spouse When he did it With his Affair Partner? 12/11/2014 Q&A How can I get my Spouse to let me Heal? 12/10/2014 Q&A Timelines for Intense Pain and Forgiveness, How Long Does it Take? 12/10/2014 Q&A How do I Accept This as my Life? 12/10/2014 Q&A How Do I Know if my Spouse is Really Changing or just Pretending? 12/10/2014 Q&A How Can I Get Past the Fear of the Future? 12/05/2014 Q&A How do I Know if I've Forgiven my Husband? 11/24/2014 Q&A Can a Narcissist Change? 11/24/2014 Q&A How Can I Get Past the Length of my Husband's Affair? 11/24/2014 Q&A What do I do Since my Unfaithful Spouse Will Not be Honest? 11/24/2014 Q&A I Discovered my Husband's Affair After He Passed Away. How do I Heal? 11/20/2014 Q&A Is There a Step by Step Guide on How to Forgive a Betrayal Such as Mine? 11/14/2014 The Trap 7/10/2013 Pages« first‹ previous1234