How to Forgive Everyone’s recovery looks different, but one consistent factor that must occur is forgiveness. Read the articles in this section to understand the process of forgiveness and to find tools for moving forward. Must Reads more less Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? The Problem with Forgiveness Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) How to Survive Infidelity Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Rebuilding Trust After An Affair How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity The Power of Small Groups Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery 168 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A Can We Recover From This? 1/06/2015 Q&A My Husband was Unfaithful for 10 Years. How can he Love me? 12/19/2014 Q&A How do I Transition from being Married to being Single with a Child? 12/19/2014 Q&A How do I Deal With my Anger and Emotions? 12/16/2014 Q&A Am I Over the Top for Feeling this Way? 12/11/2014 Q&A How Can I Enjoy an Activity with my Spouse When he did it With his Affair Partner? 12/11/2014 Q&A How can I get my Spouse to let me Heal? 12/10/2014 Q&A Timelines for Intense Pain and Forgiveness, How Long Does it Take? 12/10/2014 Q&A How do I Accept This as my Life? 12/10/2014 Q&A How Do I Know if my Spouse is Really Changing or just Pretending? 12/10/2014 Q&A How Can I Get Past the Fear of the Future? 12/05/2014 Q&A How do I Know if I've Forgiven my Husband? 11/24/2014 Q&A Can a Narcissist Change? 11/24/2014 Q&A How Can I Get Past the Length of my Husband's Affair? 11/24/2014 Q&A What do I do Since my Unfaithful Spouse Will Not be Honest? 11/24/2014 Q&A I Discovered my Husband's Affair After He Passed Away. How do I Heal? 11/20/2014 Q&A Is There a Step by Step Guide on How to Forgive a Betrayal Such as Mine? 11/14/2014 The Trap 7/10/2013 Pages« first‹ previous1234