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	Multiple Affairs, a Child, and a Marriage That Survived All of It with Cindy Beall	10/19/2026
	Understanding the Phases of Recovery: Is this normal?	10/12/2026
	Infidelity + Life: When the Affair Isn’t Your Only Crisis	9/28/2026
	Reclaiming Your Power Through Intervention	9/16/2026
	How to Forgive When You Can't Forget	9/14/2026

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Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A How I Do Handle the Wayward Only Doing the Bare Minimum?	11/02/2026
	Q&A What Signs Can We Look for That the Process is Working?	11/02/2026
	Q&A Is There A Connection Between Sex Addiction and Limerence?	10/22/2026
	Q&A What's The Point in Continuing to Dig to 'Find Out What Happened' When I've Already Given Full Disclosure?	10/22/2026
	Q&A I'm Doing All I Can to Remain Safe, Grounded, & Healthy - Why Am I Being Blamed for Their Insecurity?	10/22/2026

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4642 Resources

Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A (HH) How do You Know if Your Unfaithful Spouse is Taking Responsibility or Still Lying?	3/24/2016
	Q&A (HH) What Feelings Do the Unfaithful Experience?	3/24/2016
	Q&A (HH) Can You Recommend a Conflict Resolution Plan for Us?	3/24/2016
	Q&A (HH) How Far Past Disclosure Am I?	3/24/2016
	Q&A (HH) Leslie, Can You Explain?	3/24/2016
	Q&A (HH) Can You Offer Me Any Other Advice?	3/24/2016
	Q&A (HH) How Can I Check Into My Spouse's Business Phone?	3/24/2016
	Q&A (HH) When Should We Start Couples Counseling?	3/24/2016
	Q&A (HH) How do You Know When to Invite an Unfaithful Spouse Home?	3/24/2016
	Q&A How do I Help My Unfaithful Spouse?	3/21/2016
	Q&A How Does He Disconnect From Her and How Do We Reconnect?	3/21/2016
	Q&A Is it Normal for Me to be Accused of Guilt?	3/21/2016
	Q&A How Do I Get to a Place Where the Story Makes Sense?	3/21/2016
	Q&A Do You Think This is a Good Idea for Intimacy?	3/21/2016
	Q&A Has Anyone Experienced This Double Betrayal?	3/21/2016
	Q&A How Do I Overcome Not Putting My Wife First?	3/21/2016
	Q&A How Can We Restore Emotional Equality?	3/21/2016
	Q&A How Can They Say They Won't do it Again if They Don't Even Know the Why?	3/15/2016
	Q&A How do I Get Out of This Cycle?	3/15/2016
	Q&A What Are Your Suggestions for a Recovering Sex and Love Addict?	3/15/2016
	Q&A Why is This Abuse Seemingly Acceptable and Forgivable?	3/15/2016
	Q&A Can She Do More for Me?	3/15/2016
	Q&A Can you Explain More About Vertical and Horizontal Forgiveness?	3/08/2016
	Q&A Where was God in That Moment?	3/08/2016
	Q&A What Recovery Work Should the Unfaithful Do?	3/08/2016
	Q&A Am I a Sex Addict?	3/08/2016
	Q&A Do you Agree with my Strategy?	3/08/2016
	Q&A Should I Let my Spouse Know of This Trigger?	3/08/2016
	Q&A What Can I Do to Handle the Shock?	3/08/2016
	Q&A How Can I Deal With the Pain of the Betrayals?	3/08/2016
	Q&A How Can I Find New Life in My Marriage?	3/08/2016
	Q&A Do I Deserve to be Happy?	3/08/2016
	Q&A When is it Appropriate to Set Boundaries Confrontationally?	3/01/2016
	Q&A Are These Red Flags for Relapse?	3/01/2016
	Q&A Can You Explain What's Happening?	3/01/2016
	Q&A Will the Emptiness Caused by Betrayal Ever go Away?	3/01/2016
	Q&A Am I Reaping What I Sowed Many Years Ago?	3/01/2016
	Q&A What Reactions can We Expect from Our Children?	3/01/2016
	Q&A What is the Right Thing to do in this Relationship?	3/01/2016
	Q&A Is our Sexual Intimacy Normal at this Stage of Recovery?	3/01/2016
	Q&A What's in the Best Interest of the Child?	3/01/2016
	Q&A Can You Help Simplify our Complicated Idea of Love?	3/01/2016
	Q&A Are these Boundaries Reasonable?	2/26/2016
	Q&A How do I Get Past All the Things he Did?	2/26/2016
	Q&A How Can I Help the Unfaithful With Their Shame?	2/26/2016
	Q&A Could you Explain More About Full Disclosure?	2/26/2016
	Q&A What are the Pros and Cons to Separation After Infidelity?	2/26/2016
	Q&A Should I Confront my Former Best Friend, the Affair Partner?	2/26/2016
	Q&A Is Their Limbo Normal for this Length of Time?	2/26/2016
	Q&A Can there be Reformation and Healing from a Sex Addiction?	2/26/2016