For the Unfaithful Spouse Recovery for the unfaithful spouse requires much more humility and personal responsibility than that of the betrayed spouse. These articles are specifically to navigate recovery for the unfaithful spouse. Must Reads more less Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? The Problem with Forgiveness Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision How to Survive Infidelity Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity The Power of Small Groups Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery 341 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A Should I Give My Mate Information They Specifically Asked Me Not to Share? 6/19/2019 Q&A How Can I Communicate to My Spouse That I Am Not Excusing My Affair Partner’s Part in the Affair? 6/19/2019 Q&A How Can I Make It Clear That I'm Choosing by Mate over the Affair Partner? 6/19/2019 Q&A Is It Normal to Feel That Ending the Marriage May Be a Better Option? 6/19/2019 Q&A How Can I Communicate That I'm Choosing My Mate? 6/05/2019 Q&A If I Don't Want to Save the Marriage, Does That Mean I Don't Have Remorse? 5/21/2019 Q&A Am I Hurting My Mates Recovery Process? 5/08/2019 Q&A Is It Okay for the Wayward Spouse to Journal about the Affair Partner? 4/30/2019 Q&A What Are Healthy Ways for the Wayward to Grieve Losing the Affair Partner? 4/30/2019 Q&A How Do I Ensure That This Doesn't Change Me into a Miserable Person? 4/30/2019 Q&A How Do I Convince My Wife I Love Her and Only Her? 4/30/2019 Q&A How Can My Wife Become Disentangle from the Affair Partner? 4/30/2019 Q&A How Can I Show Empathy without Getting Defensive? 4/30/2019 Q&A How Can I Recover from an Abusive Affair Partner? 4/30/2019 Q&A How Do I Let Go of My Feelings for the Affair Partner? 4/03/2019 Q&A How Can I Show My Positive Change in Spite of Relapse? 4/03/2019 Q&A What Steps Should I Take after Relapse? 3/20/2019 Q&A How Do I Help My Spouse? 3/06/2019 Q&A Why Am I Supposed to Accept the Label 'Unfaithful'? 2/13/2019 Q&A How Do I Convince My Husband I Did Love Him and Still Do? 1/23/2019 Q&A Is My Betrayed Wife's Behavior Normal? 1/22/2019 Q&A What Does It Mean to Be a Safe Place for the Betrayed's Anger? 1/22/2019 Q&A How Do I Overcome My Jealousy? 1/09/2019 Q&A Why Do I Feel so Attacked When My Wife Brings up My past Infidelity? 1/03/2019 Q&A Why Have I Chosen Destructive Relationships in the Past? 12/14/2018 Q&A What If I Don’t Feel Guilty? 12/14/2018 Q&A Why Is My Betrayed Spouse Interrogating Me about Everyone of the Opposite Sex? 12/05/2018 Q&A How Can I Regain Her Trust Again? 11/28/2018 Q&A Why Can't I Stop Thinking about the Affair Partner? 11/21/2018 Q&A How Do I Process My Feelings for the Affair Partner? 11/07/2018 Q&A Will Feelings for the Affair Partner Ever Fade? 11/07/2018 Q&A What Do You Do When the Betrayed Spouse Doesn’t Believe Your Story? 11/07/2018 Q&A How Do We Heal When We Have Both Been Unfaithful? 11/01/2018 Q&A Is It Necessary to Wait until I No Longer Have Feelings for the AP to Reconnect with My Wife? 11/01/2018 Hope Rising 2018: Apology from the Unfaithful 10/31/2018 Q&A How Can I Fix What I've Done? 10/23/2018 Q&A How Can I Emotionally Detach from the Affair Partner? 10/17/2018 Q&A How Do I Stop These Behaviors? 9/26/2018 Q&A How Can We Move Forward in Healing with the Fear That I May Remember More Information about My Affair? 9/12/2018 Q&A Will My Desire for My Mate Return? 9/12/2018 Q&A Am I Still Deluded? 9/12/2018 Ending an Affair: Letting Go and Moving On 9/12/2018 Q&A How Can I Handle my Mate’s Questions about the Affair? 8/29/2018 Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 2 8/29/2018 Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 8/23/2018 Q&A What Keeps My Betrayed Spouse from Acknowledging Her Lack of Safety in Our Relationship? 8/22/2018 Q&A How Can I Prove to My Mate I'm Telling the Truth? 8/22/2018 Q&A How Can I Help My Spouse Accept How Long My Affair Lasted? 8/22/2018 Q&A What Does It Look like for the Wayward Spouse to Help the Injured Spouse through Recovery? 8/22/2018 Q&A Can You Help Me Explain My Shame to My Mate? 8/15/2018 Pages« first‹ previous1234567next ›last »
