Is My Spouse a Narcissist?
10/02/2024
Q&A Am I a Fool for Being Vulnerable With My Mate?
10/01/2024
How to Get Your Mate to Cooperate
9/25/2024
Q&A How Do I Get the Lying and the Porn Use by My Husband to Stop?
9/18/2024
The Process of Healing from Infidelity
8/07/2024
Q&A How Can I Get My Wife to Understand That Abuse Towards Men Is Equal to Abuse Towards Women?
7/31/2024
Q&A How Can I Help My Wayward Spouse Heal From Betrayal Trauma From a Prior Relationship?
7/31/2024
Q&A Am I Asking for Too Much Control or Is the Wayward Spouse Being Unreasonable With a Lack of Boundaries?
7/10/2024
Q&A Do I Need to Allow the Wayward Spouse to Have More Time in the Recovery Process?
7/10/2024
Romanticism: Don't Believe the Lie
7/03/2024
Q&A How Do I Respond When the Betrayed Ridicules, Shames, and Slanders Me for What I Have Done?
6/13/2024
Help With Incessant Triggers and Reminders
5/29/2024
Betrayal Trauma: Tips for Talking with Your Spouse
5/22/2024
Signs There Could Be Abusive Behaviors in Your Relationship
5/08/2024
Q&A How Do I Know When My Husband is Safe Again?
5/07/2024
Q&A How Do I Do Everything Right at Every Moment for My Wife?
4/25/2024
Q&A Should My Husband Keep His Mother in His Life Given That She Actively Facilitated and Supported His Actions?
4/25/2024
The Affair Causing Habit
4/17/2024
Psychological Abuse Within Infidelity
3/20/2024
Q&A How Do I Tell My Unfaithful Spouse I Need Access to His Devices to Feel Safe?
1/09/2024
Q&A How Do I Deal With My Husband’s Anger?
1/09/2024
Q&A What Is the Best Way to Keep Boundaries in a Situation Where the Affair Happens in a Tight Knit Community?
11/28/2023
Q&A How Do I Communicate Love, Compassion, and Empathy during the Discovery Process or Questioning?
11/28/2023
Q&A How Do I Create Safety for Myself with an Addict That Is Not Seeking Out Help for Himself?
10/23/2023
Q&A Are the Requests I’m Making to Feel Safe Unreasonable?
10/23/2023
Q&A Is It Reasonable for Me to Feel Unsafe When My Wife Is around the Affair Partner without Me?
10/23/2023
Surviving Infidelity: 6 Things I Wish I'd Known
10/11/2023
Q&A Is Minimal Contact the Right Thing to Do at This Moment?
9/29/2023
Q&A Do I Have the Right to Know What My Spouse Is Doing to Monitor Me?
9/12/2023
Q&A What Is the Best Way to Set Boundaries in the Workplace?
8/15/2023
Q&A Are the Boundaries My Mate Has Placed on Our Conversations a Red Flag in Recovery?
8/15/2023
Discovery: Why Do I Want to Know?
6/14/2023
Discovery: Processing the Details of the Affair
6/07/2023
Q&A Why Do I Still Respond Physically like I Am Lying When I’m Telling the Truth?
5/19/2023
Q&A Are Any Lasting Feelings for the Affair Partner Permitted?
5/19/2023
Q&A If There Is a Future for Our Marriage, Would You See the Journey to Be Any Different than Normal?
5/19/2023
Q&A Is It Necessary for Him to Be Proactive or Should I Be Happy He’s Doing What I Ask of Him?
4/12/2023
Discovery: Part 3 - Guidelines for Discovery
3/22/2023
Q&A How Do I Handle My Spouse’s Siblings?
3/17/2023
Discovery: Part 2 - Advice For The Wayward Spouse
3/15/2023
Q&A What Action Do You Recommend If My Mates Behavior Doesn’t Change?
3/02/2023
Q&A How Do I Handle My Mate Weaponizing Information That I’m Sharing with Them?
1/11/2023
Q&A Are My Boundaries for My Spouse Unreasonable?
1/11/2023
Q&A How Can We Get Anywhere If a Calm Conversation Can’t Happen about His Recovery or Betrayals?
12/06/2022
Q&A How Can My Spouse Work with the Affair Partner and Still Be Okay?
12/06/2022
Q&A Any Advice on How, When & Where It’s Best to Share Our Story?
11/03/2022
Q&A Am I Struggling Because I Still Feel Unsafe in Recovery?
10/13/2022
Q&A Is This an Appropriate Deal-Breaker?
8/26/2022
Q&A How Do I Keep My Boundaries Strong in a Place of Leadership?
7/07/2022
Q&A What Are the Signs I Should Run and Not Bother Wasting My Time or Emotions on Trying to Make My Marriage Work?
7/01/2022