Safety in Recovery

The hallmark of any healthy recovery is safety. Both spouses have to feel safe in order to rebuild a strong, new marriage from the ashes of the old one. Learn how to make your mate feel safe and why it is so important that you do.

1103 Resources
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Video icon Is My Spouse a Narcissist?
Video icon Q&A Am I a Fool for Being Vulnerable With My Mate?
Video icon How to Get Your Mate to Cooperate
Video icon Q&A How Do I Get the Lying and the Porn Use by My Husband to Stop?
Video icon The Process of Healing from Infidelity
Video icon Q&A How Can I Get My Wife to Understand That Abuse Towards Men Is Equal to Abuse Towards Women?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Help My Wayward Spouse Heal From Betrayal Trauma From a Prior Relationship?
Video icon Q&A Am I Asking for Too Much Control or Is the Wayward Spouse Being Unreasonable With a Lack of Boundaries?
Video icon Q&A Do I Need to Allow the Wayward Spouse to Have More Time in the Recovery Process?
Video icon Romanticism: Don't Believe the Lie
Video icon Q&A How Do I Respond When the Betrayed Ridicules, Shames, and Slanders Me for What I Have Done?
Video icon Help With Incessant Triggers and Reminders
Video icon Betrayal Trauma: Tips for Talking with Your Spouse
Video icon Signs There Could Be Abusive Behaviors in Your Relationship
Video icon Q&A How Do I Know When My Husband is Safe Again?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Do Everything Right at Every Moment for My Wife?
Video icon Q&A Should My Husband Keep His Mother in His Life Given That She Actively Facilitated and Supported His Actions?
Video icon The Affair Causing Habit
Video icon Psychological Abuse Within Infidelity
Video icon Q&A How Do I Tell My Unfaithful Spouse I Need Access to His Devices to Feel Safe?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Deal With My Husband’s Anger?
Video icon Q&A What Is the Best Way to Keep Boundaries in a Situation Where the Affair Happens in a Tight Knit Community?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Communicate Love, Compassion, and Empathy during the Discovery Process or Questioning?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Create Safety for Myself with an Addict That Is Not Seeking Out Help for Himself?
Video icon Q&A Are the Requests I’m Making to Feel Safe Unreasonable?
Video icon Q&A Is It Reasonable for Me to Feel Unsafe When My Wife Is around the Affair Partner without Me?
Text icon Surviving Infidelity: 6 Things I Wish I'd Known
Video icon Q&A Is Minimal Contact the Right Thing to Do at This Moment?
Video icon Q&A Do I Have the Right to Know What My Spouse Is Doing to Monitor Me?
Video icon Q&A What Is the Best Way to Set Boundaries in the Workplace?
Video icon Q&A Are the Boundaries My Mate Has Placed on Our Conversations a Red Flag in Recovery?
Text icon Discovery: Why Do I Want to Know?
Text icon Discovery: Processing the Details of the Affair
Video icon Q&A Why Do I Still Respond Physically like I Am Lying When I’m Telling the Truth?
Video icon Q&A Are Any Lasting Feelings for the Affair Partner Permitted?
Video icon Q&A If There Is a Future for Our Marriage, Would You See the Journey to Be Any Different than Normal?
Video icon Q&A Is It Necessary for Him to Be Proactive or Should I Be Happy He’s Doing What I Ask of Him?
Text icon Discovery: Part 3 - Guidelines for Discovery
Video icon Q&A How Do I Handle My Spouse’s Siblings?
Text icon Discovery: Part 2 - Advice For The Wayward Spouse
Video icon Q&A What Action Do You Recommend If My Mates Behavior Doesn’t Change?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Handle My Mate Weaponizing Information That I’m Sharing with Them?
Video icon Q&A Are My Boundaries for My Spouse Unreasonable?
Video icon Q&A How Can We Get Anywhere If a Calm Conversation Can’t Happen about His Recovery or Betrayals?
Video icon Q&A How Can My Spouse Work with the Affair Partner and Still Be Okay?
Video icon Q&A Any Advice on How, When & Where It’s Best to Share Our Story?
Video icon Q&A Am I Struggling Because I Still Feel Unsafe in Recovery?
Video icon Q&A Is This an Appropriate Deal-Breaker?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Keep My Boundaries Strong in a Place of Leadership?
Video icon Q&A What Are the Signs I Should Run and Not Bother Wasting My Time or Emotions on Trying to Make My Marriage Work?