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4828 Resources
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Audio Can self-loathing serve as a motivating factor in sexual abuse? 11/16/2010
Audio Do some people act out as a form of self punishment? 11/16/2010
Audio How can I be sure my mate is done with his affair partner? 11/16/2010
Audio Is it normal to feel triggered during the Holidays? 11/16/2010
Audio Is it wrong for me to continue to want to process the affair even if my mate just wants to move on? 11/16/2010
Audio What can I do to make the holidays bearable? 11/16/2010
Audio Rick's Q & A Call on November 15 11/09/2010
Text How do you respond to blackmail? 11/03/2010
Audio How do I move beyond the chaos created by my mate's relapse? What do I focus on? 11/02/2010
Audio Rick's Q & A Call on November 8 11/02/2010
Audio How does recovery differ if my mate has had mutiple affairs versus a single affair? 11/02/2010
Text We Started Well, but... 10/20/2010
Audio Am I normal if I'm having problems reconnecting at 6 months in recovery? 10/19/2010
Audio What is some good reading for me and my mate while we're in recovery? 10/19/2010
Audio Should I be jealous if my wife seems to enjoy the company of others more than me? 10/19/2010
Audio Is it wrong to tell others about my parents and how they've impacted me and their role in my recovery? 10/18/2010
Audio Rick's Q & A Call on November 1 10/18/2010
Audio I've lied to my wife for the past 11 months, how much detail do I give about what I've done? 10/12/2010
Audio What do you do if your mate's views about marraige are off? 10/12/2010
Audio Rick's Q & A Call on October 18 10/12/2010
Audio How does processing (for 50 weeks) what occured during the affair? 10/12/2010
Audio If my mate still has questions after six months of recovery should I answer them and at what level of detail? 10/12/2010
Audio What is "Brokenness"? 10/12/2010
Audio How will I ever know if he really loves me or just doesn't have another option? 9/27/2010
Audio I'm the hurt spouse, why did I have more sexual desire right after discovery then I do now? 9/27/2010
Audio How do I get my mate to talk with me? 9/27/2010
Audio How do you get the negative voices of friends out of your head? 9/27/2010
Audio Rick's Q & A Call on October 11 9/27/2010
Audio I relapsed and my mate has given up, how do I get them to come back? 9/27/2010
Audio Is it safe to be around others people of the opposite who are in recovery? 9/27/2010
Audio Is it wrong to beat my mate with scripture to show them what a sinner they are? 9/27/2010
Audio Is marriage really supposed to make you miserable? 9/27/2010
Audio What is powerlessness when it comes to an addiction and compulsion? 9/27/2010
Audio When is it time to get a divorce? 9/27/2010
Audio How do you respond if your mate isn't "all in"? 9/27/2010
Audio My husband it being more affectionate after disclosure, is that normal? 9/14/2010
Audio What is sexual anorexia? 9/14/2010
Audio Rick's Q & A Call on September 27 9/13/2010
Audio As I get better why do I want to control more? 9/07/2010
Audio How do you control OCD? 9/07/2010
Audio Is it normal for me to have sexual problems with my husband? 9/07/2010
Audio Is it normal for my mate to change how they feel about their acting out behavior? 9/07/2010
Audio Is it okay for a sex addict to masturbate? 9/07/2010
Audio Should you use polygraphs as an ongoing part of the recovery program? 9/07/2010
Audio Why have I disconnected from my sexaul feelings? 9/07/2010
Audio How do I talk about my recovery with my family? 8/25/2010
Audio How do you share recovery with your family of origin? 8/25/2010
Audio Recovering from sexual addiction 8/25/2010
Audio Sexual addiction what is the compulsion about? 8/25/2010
Audio The problem with books on sexual addiciton 8/25/2010

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