Q&A Recovery Library Thousands of questions answered by infidelity expert Rick Reynolds, LCSW and other experts from one trusted source. Gain insights from professionals who not only have specialized in treating infidelity for decades but also have healed from infidelity personally. If you have your own questions, click on the button below and submit your own. Submit a Question To submit a question, please purchase a subscription to the Recovery Library. Must Reads more less The Myth of the Greener Grass: Where Are You Investing? Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity The Problem with Forgiveness Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons How do you respond to blackmail? Part II 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Telling Your Children After the Affair Doesn’t Always Turn Out As Expected Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 The 2 Stages of Pain Q&A How Can I Begin to Heal Our Relationship? Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Why Did My Spouse Cheat? Recovery Timeline How to Survive Infidelity How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity We Started Well, but... 3377 Resources : Q&A Recovery Library Type Title Posted Q&A Should I Continue In My Own Healing In the Hopes She Will Rejoin? 4/13/2021 Q&A How Could My Wife Be Having an Affair When We Were Trying to Get Pregnant? 4/13/2021 Q&A What Can I or Should I Do With the Thoughts in My Head? 4/13/2021 Q&A It Seems My Husband Is More Worried About His Self-Image Than Actually Healing, What Do I Do? 4/13/2021 Q&A Is He ‘Cured’ and Am I Now Safe? 4/13/2021 Q&A Do You Classify This as a Sexual Addiction or Is This a Different Type of Affair? 4/13/2021 Q&A What Is the Definition of an Emotional Affair? 4/13/2021 Q&A What Else Can I Do, Other Than Be Honest and Give Her Space? 4/13/2021 Q&A Should We Try to Find New Therapist? 3/25/2021 Q&A How Do I Balance Guarding My Heart with Building Intimacy in EMS Online When My Mate Is Still Engaging His Affair Partner? 3/25/2021 Q&A What Do You Do If You Have a Trigger and It Makes You Think of a New Detail? 3/25/2021 Q&A Am I Being Manipulated Again or Does He Truly Feel This Way? 3/25/2021 Q&A Am I Expecting Too Much Too Soon, How Long Does It Take to Start to See That Coming Back? 3/18/2021 Q&A Is There Anything I Can Do to Help Him Work through His Struggles - Which in Turn Will Help Our Marriage? 3/18/2021 Q&A How Does the Betrayed Spouse Productively Handle Contempt and Disgust? 3/11/2021 Q&A Why Does My Wife Not See the Effort and Work It Takes for Me, as the Betrayed, to Stay in the Marriage? 3/11/2021 Q&A What Am I Supposed to Do as the Hurt Spouse Trying to Heal from My Husband’s Hurtful Behavior While Now Navigating My Past? 3/11/2021 Q&A As the Wayward Spouse Will I Ever Fall Back in Love with My Husband? 3/9/2021 Q&A Was He Hoping to Get Caught in an Effort to Have Me End the Marriage? 3/9/2021 Q&A What Does the Betrayed Spouse Do When the Betrayer Just Won’t End the Affair and Shows Signs of Limerence? 3/9/2021 123456789101112131415161718192021222324252627282930313233343536373839404142434445464748495051525354555657585960616263646566676869707172737475767778798081828384858687888990919293949596979899100101102103104105106107108109110111112113114115116117118119120121122123124125126127128129130131132133134135136137138139140141142143144145146147148149150151152153154155156157158159160161162163164165166167168169> next