Safety in Recovery The hallmark of any healthy recovery is safety. Both spouses have to feel safe in order to rebuild a strong, new marriage from the ashes of the old one. Learn how to make your mate feel safe and why it is so important that you do. Must Reads more less Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) The Power of Small Groups Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse The Problem with Forgiveness How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Does Time Heal All Wounds? 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Part 3: Stupid Apologies 11/13/2019 Are You Forgivable? Part 2: 7 Myths Undermining Forgiveness 11/06/2019 Q&A Why Can't My Mate Be Honest? 11/05/2019 Q&A How Can I Get the Safety I Need in Our Recovery? 11/05/2019 Q&A How Do I Handle a Relapse in the Middle of Recovery? 11/05/2019 Are You Forgivable? Part 1: Self Assessment 10/30/2019 Q&A What More Can We Do to Set Boundaries with Family Members? 10/23/2019 Q&A How Do I Protect Myself While Working Towards Healing? 10/23/2019 Q&A What Do I Do If My Wife Still Wants to Spend Time with Her Accomplice in Her Affair? 10/23/2019 Q&A At What Point Should We Get a Restraining Order for the Affair Partner? 10/16/2019 Q&A How Can I Be Vulnerable If My Mate Has Only Committed to One Year of Healing? 10/16/2019 Q&A How Can We Move Forward with This Lack of Trust? 10/02/2019 Q&A How Should I Handle My Husband's Lack of Transparency? 10/02/2019 Q&A How Do I Feel Safe through All of This? 9/26/2019 Q&A How Will I Know If It's Safe for My Spouse to Move Back in with Me? 9/26/2019 Q&A Do I Need to Have My Mate Move Out? 9/26/2019 Q&A How Do I Feel Safe about My Husband Having Female Friends at Work? 9/26/2019 Q&A What Applications and Filters Do You Recommend to Keep Us Safe? 9/18/2019 Q&A Am I Controlling My Spouse or Is This the Appropriate Way to Set Boundaries? 9/18/2019 Q&A How Do I Stay Safe When My Mate Is Still Ambivalent? 9/13/2019 Q&A How Do I Heal from the Intrusive Thoughts That Came as Result of Recording and Listening to My Mates Conversations with the Affair Partner? 9/13/2019 Q&A How Can We Create Safety and Follow-Through with Boundaries? 9/13/2019 Q&A What Do His Boundary Violations Mean? 9/13/2019 Q&A Can You Explain the Benefits of an In-House Separation? 9/13/2019 Q&A What Boundaries Are Appropriate in Recovery? 9/11/2019 Pages« first‹ previous123456789…next ›last »
