Safety in Recovery The hallmark of any healthy recovery is safety. Both spouses have to feel safe in order to rebuild a strong, new marriage from the ashes of the old one. Learn how to make your mate feel safe and why it is so important that you do. Must Reads more less How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity The Problem with Forgiveness Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Why Did My Spouse Cheat? 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Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery 1075 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A Do You Have Advice for Safely Reaching Full Disclosure without a Polygraph? 11/21/2019 Q&A How Do We Move Forward If My Mate Isn't Willing to Get Help? 11/21/2019 Q&A How Can We Move Forward in a Healthy and Safe Way? 11/21/2019 Q&A How Do I Push Forward in Recovery When I Feel That My Mate Isn't Trust Worthy? 11/14/2019 Q&A How Can I Feel Safe after My Mates Relapse? 11/14/2019 Q&A Should We Continue with the Course Work in Spite of Relapse? 11/14/2019 Q&A Can My Mate Ever Be Safe Again? 11/13/2019 Q&A Is This an Acceptable Behavior for the Recovery Process? 11/13/2019 Q&A How Do I Extend Grace to My Wayward Husband 11/13/2019 Are You Forgivable? Part 3: Stupid Apologies 11/13/2019 Are You Forgivable? Part 2: 7 Myths Undermining Forgiveness 11/06/2019 Q&A Why Can't My Mate Be Honest? 11/05/2019 Q&A How Can I Get the Safety I Need in Our Recovery? 11/05/2019 Q&A How Do I Handle a Relapse in the Middle of Recovery? 11/05/2019 Are You Forgivable? Part 1: Self Assessment 10/30/2019 Q&A What More Can We Do to Set Boundaries with Family Members? 10/23/2019 Q&A How Do I Protect Myself While Working Towards Healing? 10/23/2019 Q&A What Do I Do If My Wife Still Wants to Spend Time with Her Accomplice in Her Affair? 10/23/2019 Q&A At What Point Should We Get a Restraining Order for the Affair Partner? 10/16/2019 Q&A How Can I Be Vulnerable If My Mate Has Only Committed to One Year of Healing? 10/16/2019 Q&A How Can We Move Forward with This Lack of Trust? 10/02/2019 Q&A How Should I Handle My Husband's Lack of Transparency? 10/02/2019 Q&A How Do I Feel Safe through All of This? 9/26/2019 Q&A How Will I Know If It's Safe for My Spouse to Move Back in with Me? 9/26/2019 Q&A Do I Need to Have My Mate Move Out? 9/26/2019 Q&A How Do I Feel Safe about My Husband Having Female Friends at Work? 9/26/2019 Q&A What Applications and Filters Do You Recommend to Keep Us Safe? 9/18/2019 Q&A Am I Controlling My Spouse or Is This the Appropriate Way to Set Boundaries? 9/18/2019 Q&A How Do I Stay Safe When My Mate Is Still Ambivalent? 9/13/2019 Q&A How Do I Heal from the Intrusive Thoughts That Came as Result of Recording and Listening to My Mates Conversations with the Affair Partner? 9/13/2019 Q&A How Can We Create Safety and Follow-Through with Boundaries? 9/13/2019 Q&A What Do His Boundary Violations Mean? 9/13/2019 Q&A Can You Explain the Benefits of an In-House Separation? 9/13/2019 Q&A What Boundaries Are Appropriate in Recovery? 9/11/2019 Q&A How Can I Address the Anger and Defensiveness Coming from the Wayward Spouse? 9/04/2019 Q&A Would This Level of Detail Hurt Our Recovery Process? 8/28/2019 Q&A How Do We Move Forward When the Wayward Spouse Continues to Contact the Affair Partner? 8/28/2019 Q&A Should We Wait for the Limerence to Subside before Seeking More Restoration? 8/28/2019 Q&A How Do I Get My Spouse to Open up about Their Affair? 8/23/2019 Q&A Why Is It Always on Me to Set Boundaries? 8/23/2019 Q&A Is My Spouse Showing a Lack of Trustworthiness? 8/23/2019 Q&A Should I Tell My Husband That I Know More Details about His Affair Than I've Led on To? 8/23/2019 Q&A Is My Husband Really Repentant? 8/20/2019 Q&A How Can We Create Safety When Talking about the Affair? 8/20/2019 Q&A Is It Wrong for Me to Accept My Husband's Comfort? 8/14/2019 Q&A How Can We Create Safety in Professional Environments? 8/14/2019 Q&A What Do I Do about My Husband's Yellow Light Behaviors? 8/14/2019 Q&A Why Can't We Talk about the Affair Partner with out the Wayward Spouse Shutting Down? 8/14/2019 Q&A How Do We Recover When the Family Dynamic Has Been Dramatically Affected? 8/14/2019 Q&A What Are Your Thoughts on Confronting His Affair Partner? 8/06/2019 Pages« first‹ previous123456789…next ›last »
