Safety in Recovery The hallmark of any healthy recovery is safety. Both spouses have to feel safe in order to rebuild a strong, new marriage from the ashes of the old one. Learn how to make your mate feel safe and why it is so important that you do. Must Reads more less Why Did My Spouse Cheat? We Started Well, but... Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Recovery Timeline The 2 Stages of Pain How do you respond to blackmail? Part II The Myth of the Greener Grass: Where Are You Investing? 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Q&A How Can I Begin to Heal Our Relationship? Telling Your Children After the Affair Doesn’t Always Turn Out As Expected Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) The Problem with Forgiveness Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 How to Survive Infidelity Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors 1021 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A How Do I Handle My Husband's Dishonesty? 7/24/2019 Q&A If I Draw a Line in the Sand about My Affair It Could Result in Me Losing My Child, What Do You Suggest? 7/17/2019 Q&A Am I Being Used? 7/17/2019 Q&A How Do We Maintain Peace When We Live in Close Proximity to the Affair Partner? 7/10/2019 Q&A Am I Wrong for Wanting to Keep Contact with People I Feel Safe Around? 7/10/2019 Q&A How Do I Avoid Flooding during Hard Conversations? 7/10/2019 Q&A Do You Recommend a Separation in Our Circumstance? 7/10/2019 Q&A How Can I Implement Boundaries More Effectively? 7/10/2019 Q&A How Can I Share My Emotions without Triggering My Partners Shame? 7/03/2019 Q&A Am I Safe? 7/03/2019 Q&A Should I Give My Mate Information They Specifically Asked Me Not to Share? 6/19/2019 Q&A How Do I Feel Safe If My Spouse Isn't as Committed to Recovery as I Am? 6/19/2019 Q&A Am I Wrong for Asking My Husband to Be Transparent? 6/11/2019 Q&A Is There Any Hope for Truth? 6/11/2019 Q&A Am I Being Enabling? 6/11/2019 Q&A How Do I Set Boundaries around Ambivalence? 6/11/2019 Q&A Is There a Chance for Forgiveness or Reconciliation? 6/11/2019 Q&A Is My Behavior a Reason for My Mate to Not Follow Boundaries? 6/05/2019 Q&A Should We Send a Cease and Desist to the Affair Partner? 6/05/2019 Q&A How Can We Stay Safe While Traveling? 5/21/2019 Q&A Should We Take EMS Online Even If There Is Still Contact with the Affair Partner? 5/21/2019 Q&A What Would Be Considered a Relapse or Relapse Behavior? 5/21/2019 Q&A Why Do I Feel the One Place I Can Be Myself and Be Safe Is a Place I Now Get Attacked? 5/21/2019 Q&A Should Safety Override Pursuing the Path We Think Might Be Best for Us? 5/15/2019 Andy and Laura Mentor Video 5/14/2019 Q&A What Boundaries Would You Recommend upon Reconciliation? 5/08/2019 Q&A How Do We Handle the Affair Partner's Continued Intrusion in Our Life? 5/08/2019 Q&A Should We Disclose the AP's Personal Information to Our Mate? 5/08/2019 Q&A Is It Okay for the Wayward Spouse to Journal about the Affair Partner? 4/30/2019 Q&A How Can I Feel Safe with Multiple Online Accounts? 4/30/2019 Q&A How Can I Feel Safe from Another Relapse? 4/30/2019 Q&A What Boundaries Should We Set for Transparency? 4/17/2019 Q&A How Do You Address Your Wounds While at the Same Time Feeling Remorse for Your Mate? 4/17/2019 Q&A How Do We Set Boundaries When Children Are Involved? 4/10/2019 Q&A Is It Safe to Stay with Someone Who Hasn't Fully Disclosed the Affair? 4/10/2019 Q&A How Do I Get My Husband to Tell the Truth? 4/10/2019 Q&A How Do We Set Boundaries When the Affair Partner Has Close Family Ties? 4/10/2019 The Power of Small Groups 4/10/2019 Q&A How Can We Create Safe Boundaries with Social Media? 4/03/2019 Q&A How Do I Know If My Partner Is Safe? 4/03/2019 Q&A How Can I Show My Positive Change in Spite of Relapse? 4/03/2019 Q&A What Steps Should I Take after Relapse? 3/20/2019 Q&A How Can We Create Safety in the Workplace? 3/20/2019 Q&A How Do You Enforce Boundaries? 3/13/2019 Q&A Should I Set Boundaries with Friends during Recovery? 3/13/2019 Q&A Am I Asking for Too Much? 3/13/2019 Q&A If My Spouse Relapses during EMS Online, Should We Start Over? 3/06/2019 Q&A How Do I Set Safe Boundaries in Our Recovery? 3/04/2019 Q&A Am I Being Unreasonable with Accountability? 3/04/2019 Q&A What Boundaries Should We Set with the Opposite Sex? 2/22/2019 Pages« first‹ previous123456789…next ›last »
