Spiritual Insights With trauma like infidelity, it’s often easier to explain through a spiritual lens than in terms of the world. If you are curious about God or just curious how God and infidelity go together, the articles in this section may be especially helpful. Must Reads more less 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse The Problem with Forgiveness Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 The Power of Small Groups Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair How to Survive Infidelity 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 47 Resources