Spiritual Insights With trauma like infidelity, it’s often easier to explain through a spiritual lens than in terms of the world. If you are curious about God or just curious how God and infidelity go together, the articles in this section may be especially helpful. Must Reads more less The Problem with Forgiveness Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? The Power of Small Groups Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened How to Survive Infidelity Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse 47 Resources