Spiritual Insights With trauma like infidelity, it’s often easier to explain through a spiritual lens than in terms of the world. If you are curious about God or just curious how God and infidelity go together, the articles in this section may be especially helpful. Must Reads more less 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain The Problem with Forgiveness How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal The Power of Small Groups Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity How to Survive Infidelity 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Rebuilding Trust After An Affair How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? 47 Resources