Spiritual Insights With trauma like infidelity, it’s often easier to explain through a spiritual lens than in terms of the world. If you are curious about God or just curious how God and infidelity go together, the articles in this section may be especially helpful. Must Reads more less 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors The Problem with Forgiveness Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery How to Survive Infidelity How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Rebuilding Trust After An Affair 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 The Power of Small Groups 47 Resources