Spiritual Insights With trauma like infidelity, it’s often easier to explain through a spiritual lens than in terms of the world. If you are curious about God or just curious how God and infidelity go together, the articles in this section may be especially helpful. Must Reads more less Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery The Problem with Forgiveness Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted The Power of Small Groups Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? How to Survive Infidelity Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair 47 Resources