Spiritual Insights With trauma like infidelity, it’s often easier to explain through a spiritual lens than in terms of the world. If you are curious about God or just curious how God and infidelity go together, the articles in this section may be especially helpful. Must Reads more less The Power of Small Groups How to Survive Infidelity Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery The Problem with Forgiveness 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 47 Resources