Spiritual Insights With trauma like infidelity, it’s often easier to explain through a spiritual lens than in terms of the world. If you are curious about God or just curious how God and infidelity go together, the articles in this section may be especially helpful. Must Reads more less Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? How to Survive Infidelity Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors The Problem with Forgiveness The Power of Small Groups Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 47 Resources