Spiritual Insights With trauma like infidelity, it’s often easier to explain through a spiritual lens than in terms of the world. If you are curious about God or just curious how God and infidelity go together, the articles in this section may be especially helpful. Must Reads more less Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity The Power of Small Groups Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal The Problem with Forgiveness How to Survive Infidelity Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity 47 Resources