Spiritual Insights With trauma like infidelity, it’s often easier to explain through a spiritual lens than in terms of the world. If you are curious about God or just curious how God and infidelity go together, the articles in this section may be especially helpful. Must Reads more less The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) How to Survive Infidelity Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it The Power of Small Groups Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Rebuilding Trust After An Affair How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons The Problem with Forgiveness 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal 47 Resources