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After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need.
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Video Q&A How Do I Get over the Fact He Wanted to Walk Out on Us? 1/30/2024
Video What Does Doing the Work of Infidelity Recovery Mean for the Unfaithful - Infidelity Recovery 1/24/2024
Text Grieving Betrayal 1/17/2024
Text What is Healing? 1/10/2024
Video Q&A Given That Addiction Is Part of His Personality with the Alcohol Abuse, Is He Also a Sex Addict? Is There Any Chance He Might Get Better with DBT Therapy? 1/09/2024
Video Q&A Is It Ok for My Husband to Meet With His Affair Partner? 1/09/2024
Video Q&A Are My Assumptions about the Affair Partner’s Intentions Reasonable? 1/09/2024
Video Q&A How Do I Tell My Unfaithful Spouse I Need Access to His Devices to Feel Safe? 1/09/2024
Video Q&A Could My Husband Be a Sex Addict? 1/09/2024
Video Q&A Can You Give Me Input on How My Mate Justified Their Actions? 1/09/2024
Video Q&A How Do I Get past Feeling So Much Time Was Stolen from Me? 1/09/2024
Video Q&A If a Person Is Taking Medications and Has Gone Thru 6 Rounds of Chemo before Taking a Polygraph, Could This Give a False Reading? 1/09/2024
Video Q&A How Do I Deal With My Husband’s Anger? 1/09/2024
Video Q&A Can You Clarify What It Looks Like for Someone to Go into the Pre-contemplative and Contemplative Stage after a Relapse? 1/09/2024
Video Common Mistakes Made When Recovering from Infidelity 12/27/2023
Text Surviving the Holidays: 6 Tips 12/20/2023
Text Hope For Healing Excerpt: How Does The Unfaithful Make Amends? 12/12/2023
Text Who is the Other Woman? 12/06/2023
Text Recovering from Infidelity: Difficulties with Intimacy 11/28/2023
Video Q&A Does the Wayward Spouse Have a Right to Ask the Betrayed What Source They Are Using to Find Information about the Affair? 11/28/2023
Video Q&A Can You Help Me Understand Why My Partner Has Never Cried? 11/28/2023
Video Q&A What Is the Best Way to Keep Boundaries in a Situation Where the Affair Happens in a Tight Knit Community? 11/28/2023
Video Q&A How Do I Communicate Love, Compassion, and Empathy during the Discovery Process or Questioning? 11/28/2023
Video Q&A What Traits Should We Look For in an Accountability Partner? 11/28/2023
Video Q&A Are There Support Groups Specifically for Recovery from Both Infidelity and Alcoholism? 11/28/2023
Video Community for Healing from Infidelity – Affair Recovery 11/22/2023
Text Affair Recovery: The Number One Question and How to Answer It 11/15/2023
Text Forgiving Infidelity: The Gift of Forgiveness 11/07/2023
Text Did You Marry the Wrong Person? 11/01/2023
Text Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? 10/24/2023
Video Q&A What Is My Role in My Husband’s Healing Journey If He Has Been a Serial Cheater for Our Whole Dating & Marriage Relationship? 10/23/2023
Video Q&A How Do I Create Safety for Myself with an Addict That Is Not Seeking Out Help for Himself? 10/23/2023
Video Q&A How Do I Deal With My Sexual Addiction When Everything I’ve Tried Isn’t Working? 10/23/2023
Video Q&A How Can I Help My Mate Understand the Devastation I’m Experiencing Because of Them Giving Me An STD? 10/23/2023
Video Q&A How Do I Commit to This Marriage When I Promised Myself I’d Never Stay with Someone Who Cheated On Me? 10/23/2023
Video Q&A Are the Requests I’m Making to Feel Safe Unreasonable? 10/23/2023
Video Q&A Can You Address Ambivalence on Behalf of the Betrayed Spouse? 10/23/2023
Video Q&A Is It Reasonable for Me to Feel Unsafe When My Wife Is around the Affair Partner without Me? 10/23/2023
Text The Betrayed's Reaction: An Excerpt from Harboring Hope 10/18/2023
Text Surviving Infidelity: 6 Things I Wish I'd Known 10/11/2023
Text Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery 10/04/2023
Video Q&A Is Minimal Contact the Right Thing to Do at This Moment? 9/29/2023
Video Q&A How Do I Get My Conflict-Avoidant Spouse to Do Anything? 9/29/2023
Video Q&A How Do I Heal from the Profound Pain Caused by My Unfaithful Spouse Treating Me with Disdain for So Long? 9/29/2023
Text The Importance of Wisdom Following Infidelity 9/27/2023
Text Healing After an Affair: Emotional Flooding and Reminders 9/20/2023
Text How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? 9/13/2023
Video Q&A Can My Wife Be In Limerence Twice with the Same Man or Is It Love? 9/12/2023
Video Q&A How Long until My Husband Will Stop Focusing On Himself and Start Showing Up for Me? 9/12/2023
Video Q&A Do I Have the Right to Know What My Spouse Is Doing to Monitor Me? 9/12/2023

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