Spiritual Insights With trauma like infidelity, it’s often easier to explain through a spiritual lens than in terms of the world. If you are curious about God or just curious how God and infidelity go together, the articles in this section may be especially helpful. Must Reads more less Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision The Problem with Forgiveness Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? The Power of Small Groups The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery How to Survive Infidelity 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity 47 Resources