For the Unfaithful Spouse Recovery for the unfaithful spouse requires much more humility and personal responsibility than that of the betrayed spouse. These articles are specifically to navigate recovery for the unfaithful spouse. Must Reads more less Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors The Problem with Forgiveness How to Survive Infidelity Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse The Power of Small Groups 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Rebuilding Trust After An Affair How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity 339 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A When Will My Husband Visualize Himself with Me Instead of Seeing Me with the AP 7/26/2017 Q&A What If I Didn't Affair Down? 7/26/2017 Q&A How Can I Help My Partner with Their Flooding? 7/26/2017 What if my Spouse Doesn’t Remember All the Details? Q&A Video Excerpt from Recovery Library 5/24/2017 Surviving Infidelity: Are You Looking for an Explanation? 12/01/2016 Q&A How Can I Show True Empathy for My Wife? 10/18/2016 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse 4/13/2016 The Story that Started Affair Recovery 2/24/2016 What’s the Most Effective Role for Me? 10/27/2015 Expert Q&A Preview: How Can We Stay Out of Our Old Ruts? 10/27/2015 How Can My Unfaithful Wife Take Initiative In Recovery? 10/27/2015 How Can the Betrayer Get Past Guilt When Spouse Gives Constant Criticism? 10/27/2015 The Ashley Madison Hack - Surviving Discovery 7/29/2015 Social Shame Survey 7/15/2015 Q&A How Can we Progress to a Better Marriage? 6/23/2015 Q&A Why do They Continue to Lie? 5/12/2015 Q&A My Spouse Works With Their Affair Partner. Will They Relapse? 5/04/2015 Q&A Can Our Marriage Begin Again? 5/04/2015 Q&A Why are Some Sex Addict Meetings Co-Ed? 5/04/2015 Q&A How Can I Deal with the Affair Partner Having Been in my House? 4/21/2015 Q&A (HFH) Rick, What was Your Personal Experience With Relapse? 4/15/2015 Q&A What is Each Spouse's Role in Handling Triggers? 2/24/2015 Q&A (HFH) Am I Subconsciously Sabotaging my Marriage? 2/10/2015 Q&A (HFH) How do I Stop Lying to my Spouse and Myself? 1/29/2015 Q&A (HFH) Am I a Sex Addict? 1/20/2015 Q&A (HFH) How Can I Break a Soul Tie with my Affair Partner? 1/06/2015 Q&A (HFH) How do I Stop Thinking About my Affair Partner? 1/06/2015 Q&A (HFH) I Want to Contact my Affair Partner. How do I Stop Myself? 1/06/2015 Q&A What is the Difference Between being Angry and Assertive? 12/15/2014 Q&A Should I Apologize to my Spouse's Family for my Affair? 11/14/2014 Q&A My Husband is Having Urges 11/05/2014 Surviving Infidelity: Poor Recovery Decisions of Unfaithful Spouses - Part 2 10/23/2014 Using the Time Well: Try the First Steps Bootcamp 9/17/2014 I Only Have Eyes for You 8/19/2014 The Seduction of Blame 5/21/2014 How to Not Make Things Worse: Community Poll 11/06/2013 I Want My Life Back 9/18/2013 What We Learned at EMS Weekend 9/04/2013 It Seems I've Missed the Mark 8/13/2013 Pages« first‹ previous1234567
