Spiritual Insights With trauma like infidelity, it’s often easier to explain through a spiritual lens than in terms of the world. If you are curious about God or just curious how God and infidelity go together, the articles in this section may be especially helpful. Must Reads more less Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? How to Survive Infidelity 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) The Power of Small Groups Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision The Problem with Forgiveness 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? 47 Resources