Spiritual Insights With trauma like infidelity, it’s often easier to explain through a spiritual lens than in terms of the world. If you are curious about God or just curious how God and infidelity go together, the articles in this section may be especially helpful. Must Reads more less Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) The Power of Small Groups Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Rebuilding Trust After An Affair The Problem with Forgiveness 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 How to Survive Infidelity Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery 47 Resources