Spiritual Insights With trauma like infidelity, it’s often easier to explain through a spiritual lens than in terms of the world. If you are curious about God or just curious how God and infidelity go together, the articles in this section may be especially helpful. Must Reads more less The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery The Power of Small Groups The Problem with Forgiveness Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it How to Survive Infidelity How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? 47 Resources