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Type	Title	Posted
	Multiple Affairs, a Child, and a Marriage That Survived All of It with Cindy Beall	10/19/2026
	Understanding the Phases of Recovery: Is this normal?	10/12/2026
	Infidelity + Life: When the Affair Isn’t Your Only Crisis	9/28/2026
	Reclaiming Your Power Through Intervention	9/16/2026
	How to Forgive When You Can't Forget	9/14/2026

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Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A How I Do Handle the Wayward Only Doing the Bare Minimum?	11/02/2026
	Q&A What Signs Can We Look for That the Process is Working?	11/02/2026
	Q&A Is There A Connection Between Sex Addiction and Limerence?	10/22/2026
	Q&A What's The Point in Continuing to Dig to 'Find Out What Happened' When I've Already Given Full Disclosure?	10/22/2026
	Q&A I'm Doing All I Can to Remain Safe, Grounded, & Healthy - Why Am I Being Blamed for Their Insecurity?	10/22/2026

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4642 Resources

Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A How Can Family and Friends Support Us during Recovery?	2/28/2018
	Communication Killers: How to Remedy Stonewalling	2/28/2018
	Q&A Is It Possible for a Person to Truly Love Two Different People?	2/21/2018
	Q&A Should I Let My Wife Know Her Affair Partner Has Had Another Affair?	2/21/2018
	Q&A Should I Express My Emotions?	2/21/2018
	Q&A How Do I Get over the Hate for the Other Woman?	2/21/2018
	Q&A How Do We Decide Where to Go from Here?	2/21/2018
	Q&A Why Does My Husband Seek Validation?	2/21/2018
	Q&A Why Can't I Process This?	2/21/2018
	Q&A Why Do I Feel like I Am Being Held Captive?	2/21/2018
	Q&A How Do I Express My Pain in a Safe Way?	2/21/2018
	How to Not Make Things Worse: Stonewalling	2/21/2018
	Q&A What Steps Should I Take for Personal Healing?	2/14/2018
	Q&A Is Our Sex Drive Physical or Emotional?	2/14/2018
	Q&A How Do We Address the Affair without It Being so Negative?	2/14/2018
	Q&A Can the Unfaithful Really Not Have an Answer to the 'Why'?	2/14/2018
	Q&A Is It Common for Affairs to Start in the Midst of Traumatic Events?	2/14/2018
	Q&A How Does the Affair Partner Have Any Right to Happiness?	2/14/2018
	Q&A Do Couples Really Get Better?	2/14/2018
	Q&A How Do I Deal with My Altered View of My Unfaithful Wife?	2/14/2018
	Q&A Are Affairs the Direct Result of Marital Deficits?	2/14/2018
	Q&A Will I Ever Be Able to Go Places Where My Husband Has Taken His AP for Secret Sexual or Relational Contact?	2/14/2018
	Q&A How Could He Be so Loving and Romantic Toward the AP?	2/14/2018
	Q&A What Does Accepting My Sex and Validation Addicted Spouse's Infidelity Look Like?	2/14/2018
	Q&A Should We Try to Save the Marriage?	2/14/2018
	Q&A How Do I Handle My Husband’s Addiction to Saving Her?	2/14/2018
	Q&A How Do I Support My Mate without Crossing the Line of Being Co-Dependent?	2/14/2018
	Q&A What Do I Do with Intense Thoughts during Sexual Interactions?	2/14/2018
	Q&A What Do We Do about STD's and Sex?	2/14/2018
	Q&A How Do You Heal When Dealing with a Narcissist?	2/14/2018
	Q&A Is It Acceptable Behavior for My Husband to Have a Female Friend?	2/14/2018
	Q&A How Do I Deal with On-Going D-Days?	2/14/2018
	Q&A Has Our Recovery Started over Again?	2/14/2018
	Q&A When Will I Feel like a Person of Value Again?	2/14/2018
	Q&A How Do I Deal with My Husbands Fantasy Attraction?	2/14/2018
	Q&A Should We Seek Closure with the Affair Partner?	2/14/2018
	Q&A What Happens When the Unfaithful Shows No Effort?	2/14/2018
	Q&A How to We Navigate Recovery with a History of Abuse?	2/14/2018
	Q&A Should I Stay or Go?	2/14/2018
	Q&A Is a Separation Unreasonable after Multiple Relapses?	2/14/2018
	Q&A Why Was I so Interchangeable and Replaceable?	2/14/2018
	Q&A How Do I Deal with What Other People Think in Regards to the Affair?	2/14/2018
	Q&A How Do I Overcome the Deceit?	2/14/2018
	Q&A What’s the Best Way to Process with My Mate?	2/14/2018
	Q&A Should You Have a Therapist of the Same Sex?	2/14/2018
	Practical Tools for Betrayed Spouses	2/14/2018
	Q&A Can You Give Me Advice to Help Put This to Rest?	2/07/2018
	Q&A Should I Reveal My Spouse's Affair?	2/07/2018
	Q&A How Do I Talk to Our Teen Children about Sex since They Know about the Affair?	2/07/2018
	Q&A How Can I Get My Mate to Understand the Good Times Weren’t a Cover up for the Affair?	2/07/2018